The Bachelorette: Jenn Tran DUMPS Sam after surprising claims that he 'loves' her before she sends two more packing before Hometowns Have YOU got a story? Email [email protected] By Brian Gallagher For Dailymail.com Published: 06:59, 13 August 2024 | Updated: 07:13, 13 August 2024 e-mail View comments Jenn Tran brought the final seven contestants down to the top four for her Hometowns week on Monday's episode of The Bachelor .
The episode was not without controversy, with Sam - who Jenn gave the First Impression Rose to on the first night - sent away after some controversial antics. This week's episode took place in Seattle, where a group date brought the top seven - Devin, Sam, Jonathon, Grant, Marcus, Spencer and Jeremy - to a radio station where the men were supposed to open up more about their feelings for Jenn. Sam's responses were awkward at best, and when Jenn pressed him on his feelings, it got even worse, to the point where Jenn booted him before the rose ceremony .
She also eliminated Grant and Spencer at the end of the week n Seattle, with Devin, Jonathon, Marcus and Jeremy moving forward to Hometowns. Jenn Tran brought the final seven contestants down to the top four for her Hometowns week on Monday's episode of The Bachelor Sam's responses were awkward at best, and when Jenn pressed him on his feelings, it got even worse, to the point where Jenn booted him before the rose ceremony The episode begins in Seattle, after a trip to New Zealand , where Bachelorette Jenn Trann admitted she was able to, 'break down my walls with the guys,' adding, 'I felt so seen by each and every one of them. But next week is hometowns.
I can see my future with all of them.' 'So it's all about figuring out who those four guys are going to be, that I'm going to meet their families next week. Like, it scares me because I'm going to send home a really strong connection.
It's probably going to be one of the hardest decisions yet. It's not going to be easy. On Joey's season, I was sent home the week before hometowns, and at that time, I know all the feelings I had, and I can only imagine where these guys are at now, and so that's why this week is going to be so hard for me, is because these are serious relationships at this point.
I think I just want to talk to someone who's done this before,' she said, before meeting with Charity Lawson from last season. 'Charity's been the Bachelorette. She's found love in this same journey, and that's what I want.
I hope that I can get some really good advice from Charity,' Jenn says in confession. 'I've been dying to talk to you, actually,' as Charity asks, 'Okay, well, I just want to see, like, how you're holding up with everything because I know it's a lot.' 'Yeah, I mean, like, Hometowns is next week.
I just don't want to make the wrong decision,' Jenn says. Charity says, 'I know. It's always going to be like a what if a little bit, which is hard.
It's hard to come to terms with.' Jenn asks, 'Like, how did you discern like what you needed from certain people, like, you know?' Charity says, 'Yeah, I literally had a list of everyone's names, and like every week when I would talk to them, I would write down something else that was like a quality that, you know, that they brought.' The episode begins in Seattle, after a trip to New Zealand , where Bachelorette Jenn Trann admitted she was able to, 'break down my walls with the guys,' adding, 'I felt so seen by each and every one of them.
But next week is hometowns. I can see my future with all of them' 'Charity's been the Bachelorette. She's found love in this same journey, and that's what I want.
I hope that I can get some really good advice from Charity,' Jenn says in confession Charity says, 'Yeah, I literally had a list of everyone's names, and like every week when I would talk to them, I would write down something else that was like a quality that, you know, that they brought.' Jenn says, 'That's smart. I should have done that,' as Charity adds, 'It's okay.
You still have time. So when I like would reflect, I had to, like, look deeper at like things that I wanted. And then what do I need from them?' Jenn adds she still has seven guys to choose from and getting that down to four will be 'really, really hard for me.
' Charity asks, 'Do you feel like any of the guys are, like, holding back?' Jenn answers, 'I think Sam's holding back a little bit. He does remind me a lot of, like, my previous. Like, guys I've gone for, in a sense, where we had, like, this physical connection, and I think there's more to be, like, explored with, like, emotionally.
Is this just, like, physical? Like, what is it? And I think that's maybe the part that is scaring me.' Jenn adds that Jeremy, 'is someone who I laugh with nonstop. Like, I feel like 110% myself with him.
Like, we have the same exact sense of humor. But I don't know if there's going to be more there.' Jenn also adds that she thinks, 'Marcus is holding back a little bit,' adding, 'I think he's expressed that it's hard for him to be vulnerable, which makes me want to hold back a little bit, too.
But I do agree. Like, this week is huge, and I want to feel confident in giving out these roses and knowing that there is a future there.' Charity asks, 'Do you, like, see yourself at the end of it, like being engaged?' Jenn answers, ' I do really feel like I can get there with some of those guys, and I'm excited for it.
Like, I'm more excited than I am nervous.' The guys all arrive in Seattle as Marcus says the Emerald City is his, 'old stomping grounds' and he's excited to be back. The guys are all hanging out as Jeremy - the only one in the group who hasn't had a one-on-one date - hopes Jenn is, 'saving the best for last.
' Charity asks, 'Do you feel like any of the guys are, like, holding back?' The guys all arrive in Seattle as Marcus says the Emerald City is his, 'old stomping grounds' and he's excited to be back 'It might just be delusion at this point, but I feel -- I still feel like there's something strong between me and Jenn, so I'm expecting to get a one on one,' Jeremy says in confession. Jeremy is disappointed when Marcus gets the one-on-one date, with the date card reading, 'Marcus, let's find love in Emerald City. Love, Jenn.
' The date card comes with a box - which contains a green letterman's jacket - which Marcus admits he doesn't know what that means but says he's, 'buzzing.' 'If I get a rose tonight, that means that Jenn will be meeting my family, and that is the biggest deal to me. Because without them, I'm nothing.
So like it's crucial. But my only fear would be kind of getting in my own way and kind of keeping up a guard and getting sent home. I think sometimes the scariest thing that you can do is, like, open yourself up to the possibility of love.
I feel like I'm, like, bracing for impact right now. You're like, 'Oh, relax.' But you're like -- but what if I get hurt?' Marcus says.
Jenn meets up with Marcus for her second one-on-one date with him, which Jenn says is, 'huge for us.' 'I have so many feelings for him. And we have a strong connection, but Marcus tends to hold back a little bit.
You know, next week is hometowns, and if we can't push past that, I think it would be detrimental to our relationship. I want to keep growing and moving forward. So the stakes are high today,' Jenn says in confession.
They meet with host Jesse Palmer as he says they're going to celebrate the upcoming movie Wicked since they're in the 'Emerald City.' Jesse says, 'The movie is all about love, it's about adventure, and it's also about understanding someone's true character. All of very important parts of today's date.
' The date card comes with a box - which contains a green letterman's jacket - which Marcus admits he doesn't know what that means but says he's, 'buzzing.' 'If I get a rose tonight, that means that Jenn will be meeting my family, and that is the biggest deal to me. Because without them, I'm nothing.
So like it's crucial. But my only fear would be kind of getting in my own way and kind of keeping up a guard and getting sent home. I think sometimes the scariest thing that you can do is, like, open yourself up to the possibility of love.
I feel like I'm, like, bracing for impact right now. You're like, 'Oh, relax.' But you're like -- but what if I get hurt?' Marcus says ‘I have so many feelings for him.
And we have a strong connection, but Marcus tends to hold back a little bit. You know, next week is hometowns, and if we can't push past that, I think it would be detrimental to our relationship. I want to keep growing and moving forward.
So the stakes are high today,’ Jenn says in confession Jenn says in confession, 'I've seen the musical Wicked. For me personally, what I love about it is the idea that there's so much more to a person than what meets the eye. And today with Marcus, I want to be able to see if our relationship can continue to grow.
' Marcus admits, 'I do feel a little guarded still. Jenn has definitely encouraged me to open up and to be vulnerable. I struggle to let people in my life.
But for Jenn, all I want to do is try to be open to the possibility of being vulnerable and, you know, finding love.' They are greeted by Kelsey Anderson and Daisy Kent from Jenn's Bachelor season, at the start of a makeshift yellow brick road. 'Daisy and Kelsey are here.
I could not be happier to see them. You know, they're two people who I got to know really close on Joey's season, and to have them a part of this journey means so much,' she says in confession. They go on a journey down this Yellow Brick Road where they're asked, 'to be honest with your preferences, but make a final decision together, because that's what a relationship is all about.
' They come across two boxes - Spicy and Sweet - and they both pick spicy, and find a bunch of peppers under it. They both try a pepper and it doesn't seem to faze Marcus much as Jenn says, 'I can't believe you're not dying. This is so unfair.
' Daisy says in confession, 'I think Jenn and Marcus have a lot of chemistry. They seem very, like, complementary to each other. Jenn says in confession, 'I've seen the musical Wicked.
For me personally, what I love about it is the idea that there's so much more to a person than what meets the eye. And today with Marcus, I want to be able to see if our relationship can continue to grow' Marcus admits, 'I do feel a little guarded still. Jenn has definitely encouraged me to open up and to be vulnerable.
I struggle to let people in my life. But for Jenn, all I want to do is try to be open to the possibility of being vulnerable and, you know, finding love' They are greeted by Kelsey Anderson and Daisy Kent from Jenn's Bachelor season, at the start of a makeshift yellow brick road They come across two boxes - Spicy and Sweet - and they both pick spicy, and find a bunch of peppers under it They get to another set of boxes - Scream and Whisper - as they both pick Scream. They lift the box and it says, 'Scream your feelings.
' Marcus screams, 'I like Jenn!' Jenn says, 'I feel like a real couple with Marcus going down the yellow brick road and making decisions. Little playful action. I like it.
' They come across another set of boxes that reads 'Playful' and 'Passionate' as they pick playful and get into a pillow fight...
but they end up making out on a pile of pillows. 'I know it was playful, but jumping on to Marcus on this pile of pillows feels pretty passionate right now,' Jenn says. Marcus says, 'When I woke up today, I did not think that I would be making out with Jenn on top of a mountain of pink pillows.
On to the next one? - Yeah. - Marcus: You know, I think this is the perfect date for Jenn and I because life is a journey and it's full of difficult choices. And I think that we're definitely off to a strong start.
' They come across two more boxes - Fast and Slow - though Jenn picks Fast and Marcus picks Slow. Marcus says, 'In relationships. Yeah, I think I take a while to, to warm up.
- Okay. - Yeah. Between going fast or going slow, I pick slow because when I let someone into my life, that decision is like a permanent decision, for better or worse, which is scary.
' Jenn tells him, 'I'm a fast girl. You got to keep up,' as Jenn says in confession, 'That's concerning. Marcus, he's more of a slow burn than I am, so I think that freaks me out a little bit.
' Marcus screams, 'I like Jenn!' Jenn says, 'I feel like a real couple with Marcus going down the yellow brick road and making decisions. Little playful action. I like it.
' They come across another set of boxes that reads 'Playful' and 'Passionate' as they pick playful and get into a pillow fight...
but they end up making out on a pile of pillows They come across two more boxes - Fast and Slow - though Jenn picks Fast and Marcus picks Slow. They take a bike ride down the Yellow Brick Road and meet Charity Lawson again, who tells them that, 'the next step in your journey is uncovering pieces of home that made you who you are today. Behind me are some of Glinda's famous popular bubbles.
You'll need my wand to help you burst these special bubbles.' They pop one of the bubbles and find a picture of Marcus and his sister, when he graduated basic training. He tells her, 'We talk every day.
So if I make it to hometowns, you'll definitely meet her. She's the most important person in my life. Life has been difficult at times.
My sister's the one constant in my life that's been through everything that I've been through. And, um, she's been there for all the highs and all the lows.' They play a video of Marcus' sister Gabby who says, 'Hey, big brother, I hope everything is going good.
I hope that you're having the time of your life on this amazing journey that you are on. I can't wait to see you. I miss you.
Better come home with a fiancée on your arm.' Marcus says, 'For Jenn to see how special, you know, my sister is to me, like, I want her to know all about that.' Jenn gets a note from her mom that says, 'My dear daughter, I hope all is well with you.
I miss and love you so much. I'm excited to follow your journey in finding true love. I'm sorry for not being able to give you a perfect family with both parents.
I never wanted it to happen, but I tried my best but couldn't because that's out of my hands. I'm always right there in your heart. I love you more than anything in this world.
And you're everything to me. Love, Mom.' Jenn says, 'My mom, I know that she tried her best, and she didn't want me to feel like I came from a broken family.
She didn't want me to feel like I had anything missing.' She says in confession, 'Growing up, I definitely felt like things were broken. But I mean, being who I am now, like, I am who I am today, and I've made it through this horrible past I've had.
This whole thing is a lot bigger than just each other. You know, I feel like my family would love Marcus.' They take a bike ride down the Yellow Brick Road and meet Charity Lawson again, who tells them that, 'the next step in your journey is uncovering pieces of home that made you who you are today.
Behind me are some of Glinda's famous popular bubbles. You'll need my wand to help you burst these special bubbles' They pop one of the bubbles and find a picture of Marcus and his sister, when he graduated basic training Jenn gets a note from her mom that says, 'My dear daughter, I hope all is well with you. I miss and love you so much.
I'm excited to follow your journey in finding true love. I'm sorry for not being able to give you a perfect family with both parents. I never wanted it to happen, but I tried my best but couldn't because that's out of my hands.
I'm always right there in your heart. I love you more than anything in this world. And you're everything to me.
Love, Mom' They're met by the very first Bachelorette, Trista Sutter, who says, 'Many, many years ago, I found love on the very same road. It's scary to be vulnerable, but you have to be honest with what you want in love. So let your love defy gravity above the city.
' They go on a hot air balloon ride above the city - their first time ever in a hot air balloon, as Jenn admits in confession, 'This moment just makes me so hopeful for for Marcus and I. But I'm also fearful that I might be on a different level that Marcus is at. Tonight is the first hometown rose.
And I hope that we can get there.' Back at the hotel, Grant said he was hoping to get another one-on-one date with Jenn even though he just had one with her last week. However, the date card comes and Spencer, Jonathon, Sam, Devin and Grant get the group date and Jeremy finally gets his one-on-one date.
Grant says in confession, 'I didn't get the one on one. And I'm really bummed about it. Getting that connection and then not being able to see the person, and I know she's on another date, it's like, damn.
It doesn't feel great at all. It sucks.' Jenn says in confession she had a 'such a great date' with Marcus but she was, 'fearful that I might be investing too much, too fast into Marcus.
' 'I feel very strongly for Marcus, but there is a lingering fear that I might be further along than he is, and that's scary. Thank you. So tonight, I just need him to be more vulnerable with me and more open with me, just like how I would be for my partner.
And if Marcus isn't where I'm at tonight, I mean, that's going to be devastating,' she adds. They head to T-Mobile Park - home of the MLB's Seattle Mariners - for a romantic dinner at a table right on home plate. They're met by the very first Bachelorette, Trista Sutter, who says, 'Many, many years ago, I found love on the very same road.
It's scary to be vulnerable, but you have to be honest with what you want in love. So let your love defy gravity above the city' They go on a hot air balloon ride above the city - their first time ever in a hot air balloon, as Jenn admits in confession, 'This moment just makes me so hopeful for for Marcus and I. But I'm also fearful that I might be on a different level that Marcus is at.
Tonight is the first hometown rose. And I hope that we can get there' They head to T-Mobile Park - home of the MLB's Seattle Mariners - for a romantic dinner at a table right on home plate During the dinner, Jenn says she would have never been able to open up last week if he wasn't there, and she wants to give him a, 'safe space' to open up too. Marcus says in confession, 'Hometowns are coming up, and opening up to Jenn about where I came from and how I feel about it is something that I like, don't share with anyone really.
Like even some of my closest friends don't really even get that side of me. So yeah, I think I just kind of want to be honest with her about everything and see, you know, how she takes that.' During dinner, Marcus tells her, 'The part that's like sticking out to me the most about today was like the comment that your mother had made about, you know, her doing the best that she could for you.
And, you know, even though that you're, like, dad wasn't around the way that maybe he, like, could have been or should have been. Um, and I want you to know that that strikes a chord with me. It hits home with me because I do not come from a perfect family, far from it.
Um...
My sister, when we were young, when we were kids, uh, we were kind of born into, like, a pretty, like, rough situation.' He adds 'we had parents who couldn't like, really, like, take care of us. They were a bit like.
.. Just like unstable and just like they weren't fit to be parents, and they, like, brought us to daycare one day and just, like, never came back for us.
' Marcus continues, 'That was that was the start of, like, you know, like a very rough chapter in my childhood. Like, I had to, like, take on the the role of looking after my sister. We lived in a foster home together.
Families would like try us on for size. And there was a lot of times where I thought that I was going to, like, have a mom and dad, and then they would, like, change their mind, and then, like, me and my sister would end up back at, you know, a foster home. So I think that experience kind of made me feel like there was, like, something wrong with me.
' Jenn insists, 'There's nothing wrong with you,' as she says in confession, 'Hearing Marcus tell me his story tonight, it's so heartbreaking, and for him to be open to me and to really share what he was feeling in those moments makes me understand why he was holding back and always just had a guard up. I get it. It just makes sense.
' Marcus tells her, 'You know, I feel like there's a huge canyon in between liking someone and loving someone. And especially after today, like, I'm at a point where I want to kind of fall into that canyon and I want, like, a love that's going to stay when anyone else would leave.' She says, 'I hope you know how strong you are.
I hope you truly believe that and you see that. And like sharing your story doesn't show weakness, doesn't show that you're broken, doesn't show that you're not worth anything. It shows how incredible of a person that you are to have overcome all of that.
I see that, and I see you, and I want you to know how happy I am that you're here, because I can't imagine this journey without you, honestly.' During the dinner, Jenn says she would have never been able to open up last week if he wasn't there, and she wants to give him a, 'safe space' to open up too Marcus continues, 'That was that was the start of, like, you know, like a very rough chapter in my childhood. Like, I had to, like, take on the the role of looking after my sister.
We lived in a foster home together. Families would like try us on for size. And there was a lot of times where I thought that I was going to, like, have a mom and dad, and then they would, like, change their mind, and then, like, me and my sister would end up back at, you know, a foster home.
So I think that experience kind of made me feel like there was, like, something wrong with me' He adds 'we had parents who couldn't like, really, like, take care of us. They were a bit like..
. Just like unstable and just like they weren't fit to be parents, and they, like, brought us to daycare one day and just, like, never came back for us' She says in confession, 'Hearing Marcus' story and really understanding where he comes from made me understand him so much more as a person and why he is the way he is and how he reads relationships. And it's exactly the way that I view relationships.
I mean, we're just so similar because we grew up in such untraditional families. It's like we're both scared, but we both know, like, once we fall in love, like, that's it.' She tells him, 'Today has been a dream.
And tonight getting to know you even more means so much to me. If you ever felt unlovable, I want you to know that you're worthy to me. So, Marcus, will you accept this rose?' He says, 'I would love to.
Thank you.' Marcus says, 'This is the love story that I've always wanted when I was a kid. This is a love story that I thought I was never worthy of.
And it's happening. I feel like I'm living in a dream.' They both watch fireworks being shot over the park as they make out as Marcus admits in confession, 'I feel like lighter.
Like I can breathe now after being vulnerable with Jenn. She's accepting me for who I am, imperfection at all. Jenn is going to meet every single person that I care about.
So I feel like the luckiest person alive.' The group date is at a radio station called Love On Air Seattle, where Jenn and the guys are joined by DJs Bender and Jubal, along with Jason and Molly Mesnick, who tied the knot in 2010, and appeared on that very same radio station 15 years earlier. Molly asked if, 'anybody that stuck out right away for you,' and she said, 'on night one, I only kissed one guy, and it was Sam, and it is more physical right now than emotional, but I want it to get more emotional.
So it's all about really like breaking that barrier and really continuing to do that.' When she's asked who she just falls into and feels safe with and she said Sam as well, adding, 'Yeah, he's a great snuggle.' Jenn admits in confession, 'I feel a strong connection with Sam.
He's smooth. He's hot, and we've had this physical connection. And I think we've had a little bit of an emotional connection on our one on one date.
But I mean, there's red flags, too. I just want to feel more secure in our relationship, and I just don't. There's something missing there.
And I want to be able to pull that out today.' She tells him, 'Today has been a dream. And tonight getting to know you even more means so much to me.
If you ever felt unlovable, I want you to know that you're worthy to me. So, Marcus, will you accept this rose?' He says, 'I would love to. Thank you' Marcus says, 'This is the love story that I've always wanted when I was a kid.
This is a love story that I thought I was never worthy of. And it's happening. I feel like I'm living in a dream.
' The group date is at a radio station called Love On Air Seattle, where Jenn and the guys are joined by DJs Bender and Jubal, along with Jason and Molly Mesnick, who tied the knot in 2010, and appeared on that very same radio station 15 years earlier The guys all walk in and realize that they're at a radio station, as Devin admits in confession that he thinks the cocky Sam is, 'in trouble.' 'It's a funny thing when you get put on the spot and have to say things that you actually are supposed to truly feel. In Sam's case, I'm sure he'll blow it, but, you know, we'll see how that goes,' Devin says.
Molly says that Jenn wants to get to know 'the deeper side of all you guys,' and they start with 'rapid fire word association. They start with Spencer and say, 'rose,' and he says, 'Me,' as Grant is given, 'Shower,' and he says immediately, 'Every day.' They get to Sam and give him, 'Fantasy suite,' and he hesitates, but when he's reminded it's, 'rapid fire,' he says, 'Aggressive,' which surprises everyone.
They ask Grant to use 'three adjectives to describe Jenn and he says, 'She's witty, charming, intellectual.' Devin says, 'Jenn is exhilarating, breathtaking. And I think the most fun one is spontaneous.
' Jonathon says, 'Driven. Exciting. And to me, the most important is open minded,' as Jenn says in confession, 'There's a lot of questions being asked, and I almost feel like it's a who loves Jenn more competition, and I am eating up every second of it.
I want to know who loves Jenn more, too.' Molly says that Jenn wants to get to know 'the deeper side of all you guys,' and they start with 'rapid fire word association They get to Sam and give him, 'Fantasy suite,' and he hesitates, but when he's reminded it's, 'rapid fire,' he says, 'Aggressive,' which surprises everyone Jenn says in confession, 'There's a lot of questions being asked, and I almost feel like it's a who loves Jenn more competition, and I am eating up every second of it. I want to know who loves Jenn more, too' When it comes to Sam, he says, 'Um.
I would say...
Just fire and, like, strong passion, so, uh...
Yeah, to say that I've been doing nothing but falling in love with you from, uh, from the first time that we had a conversation would be, uh, yeah, that would be a lie. I didn't know if you would be able to show love the way that I knew how to. And it literally took you giving a toast to all of us saying cheers to a ferocious love.
Um, for that to be so unorthodox, and I describe my love as reckless.' Devin says in confession, 'I have been saying this since he got here. Sam, that he talks, for the life of him, but nothing ever comes out of his mouth.
' Sam continues, 'I feel like I'm somebody that, like I say, it constantly pours into somebody else's cup...
' Jonathon adds in confession, 'I'm sitting here listening to Sam, and you can tell she's, like, not feeling the answers. You know, she's listening to what's being said, but what's being said isn't answering the question. Jenn admits, 'I'm so confused.
I don't know, I don't feel like his answers make sense to me, and I'm not sure how authentic his answers are. All the other guys in the room you know, they're being open and honest, and I appreciate that.' The DJ's say, 'I'm going to ask most of you guys to leave.
And for one person, uh, we truly believe needs to get to know Jenn better and Jenn to get to know them better is going to be Sam.' Spencer says, 'They choose the person they thought needed more time with Jenn, and that's Sam. So Sam gets more time with Jenn, and we get pulled into a room where we get the distinct pleasure of watching it on a screen.
' Jenn asks, 'Okay. How was your first impression of me, and how has that changed over time?' When it comes to Sam, he says, 'Um. I would say.
.. Just fire and, like, strong passion, so, uh.
.. Yeah, to say that I've been doing nothing but falling in love with you from, uh, from the first time that we had a conversation would be, uh, yeah, that would be a lie.
I didn't know if you would be able to show love the way that I knew how to. And it literally took you giving a toast to all of us saying cheers to a ferocious love. Um, for that to be so unorthodox, and I describe my love as reckless' Devin says in confession, 'I have been saying this since he got here.
Sam, that he talks, for the life of him, but nothing ever comes out of his mouth' Sam continues, 'I feel like I'm somebody that, like I say, it constantly pours into somebody else's cup' Jenn admits, 'I'm so confused. I don't know, I don't feel like his answers make sense to me, and I'm not sure how authentic his answers are. All the other guys in the room you know, they're being open and honest, and I appreciate that' Sam says, 'It's a testament to this process.
I've told you I almost didn't even make -- I almost didn't even come here, and I thought, no, like, there's an opportunity to find my wife here. And that's exactly what I'm going to do.' In the other room, Devin says, 'She asked what it is about her, and he's talking about himself.
' Sam tells her, 'And then I got out of the limo. I'm like, 'Okay, this girl is not my type.' Like, this is that whole idea of, like, the unknown right there.
I thought the Bachelorette was going to be Daisy or Maria.' Sam tells her, 'Obviously, like, you're you're stunning. There's no doubt about that right there.
But like, that's -- I know that that fades, but I think I trust the process.' Sam tells her, 'I truly feel like I'm like meant to be here. My dream is to be a father, is to be a husband.
Um, my parents have been together for 30 plus years. But, like, I think you know everybody wants a love that's lasting and real. But I think, like, what is it about me that makes you feel like we could have a really great future together, besides the fact that we both want this ferocious love? Truly your selflessness.
Because I consider myself a very selfless person, as well.' She asks, 'How do you know that I'm selfless?' He says, 'I mean, you're either selfless or you're full of s**t. One or the other.
At the end of the day, like, I'm somebody that's trusting this process. I've told you that. Also this is how I know you're selfless, actually.
After night one, that connection that we had was...
hot.' Jenn expresses her frustration in confession, stating, 'Sam's not really answering any of my questions. He's kind of giving vague answers.
' Sam tells her, 'I, like, cannot express to you enough how serious I am about this situation right here.' Sam tells her, 'And then I got out of the limo. I'm like, 'Okay, this girl is not my type.
' Like, this is that whole idea of, like, the unknown right there. I thought the Bachelorette was going to be Daisy or Maria' Sam tells her, 'Obviously, like, you're you're stunning. There's no doubt about that right there.
But like, that's -- I know that that fades, but I think I trust the process' Sam tells her, 'I, like, cannot express to you enough how serious I am about this situation right here' Jenn says to Sam, 'I am frustrated because all these little moments have been building up. At this point in the journey, I need to feel reassured and secure in our relationship. I don't know.
Like, how can you be so sure about being an engagement at the end of this with me when -- do you feel like you really know me?' Sam says, 'Honestly, you know, I told you from early that my love language is physical touch. It's like this. It's like.
..' as he starts to kiss her.
Jenn admits in confession, 'I don't know why he's doing this. I need him to tell me why he sees me as his wife and what exact qualities in me that he sees that he wants in the future. I didn't feel as if I got any answers.
Calm down, cowboy. - Well, Jenn, I think it's time for you to take the boys for the rest of your evening. - That's all the time we have on this episode of Love On Air Seattle.
Tonight, it's important to understand what he sees in me and if he understands me at all.' Jenn meets up with the guys after their group date and says, 'I was actually really looking forward to spending the day with you guys today. I feel like it's been so long since we've been able to chat since the last rose ceremony, so today was so fun for me and you guys made me feel so seen today and made me feel like I'm picking the right relationships here.
Uh, there was one conversation in which I left feeling a little bit unsettled. I'm not in the business of making another mistake again. And with hometowns being next week, I need tonight to be about how we're going to fit into each other's futures.
' The guys all believe that the guy who 'frustrated' her was Sam as Grant tells Jenn that he's nervous because, 'this is a different experience. It's something that I hold close to my heart. And, um, I cherish it.
And I see a future in you. I just want you to know that I am falling in love with you. And I mean that when I say it.
' Jenn says in confession, 'Grant expressed his feelings of love for me tonight, and obviously, it makes me so happy to hear that he's there. And it makes me so happy to hear with him. I know that it's coming from a real place.
' Jenn meets with Jonathon and says, 'To see you today made me really excited. And then also to hear you, like, express how you felt about me and everything that you said about me today, it made me feel even more for you because you really saw me today.' Jonathon says, 'Everything from today and a huge point that I wanted to make was the feelings I have for you skyrocketed.
And it makes me so happy.' Jenn admits in confession, 'I don't know why he's doing this. I need him to tell me why he sees me as his wife and what exact qualities in me that he sees that he wants in the future.
I didn't feel as if I got any answers. Calm down, cowboy. - Well, Jenn, I think it's time for you to take the boys for the rest of your evening.
- That's all the time we have on this episode of Love On Air Seattle. Tonight, it's important to understand what he sees in me and if he understands me at all' Jenn says, 'Jonathon says that he feels strongly for me, and that's exactly what I needed to hear. He's someone who I see challenges me in a lot of different ways, especially emotional depth.
' Spencer tells Jenn, 'We had so much momentum coming off of our one on one. It was the best date I've ever been on, and, like, thank you for letting me know that you see me and..
.' Jenn says, 'I do, and I see you trying. And I know it's hard because it's hard for me to.
It doesn't come easy to me. I want you to know that. Like, you've given me so much more than any of my previous relationships have.
Jenn says in confession, 'With Spencer, I feel so seen and understood, and I feel so good with where I'm at with a lot of these guys. There are so many great parts to tonight and so many parts that I'm so excited about.' Devin says to Jenn, 'I want you to know that I actually am enjoying the thought of you coming home to my family because I know exactly who you are, which is something that I could never say about my previous relationship.
I feel so strongly about you, and I have no doubts about who you are and the way you make me feel. I have only ever told my mom that I want to bring a girl home that makes me proud and makes her proud. And you are the definition of both of those things, so.
..' Jenn says to him, 'I want you to know how much the way that you've been throughout this entire journey has meant to me.
And I feel so seen by you, and I feel like you're someone who gets me, like...
and that's not an easy feeling to come by. And you've expressed before like you're falling in love with me. And I want you to know that today, like, I feel all the same things and I'm falling for you as well.
' Devin says, 'I feel fantastic. She told me she was falling for me. All I needed to hear was that, and there's no turning back.
I couldn't be happier.' Devin tells her, 'I have such a strong sense of who you are in such a short amount of time. And it blows my mind that you can continue to surprise me every single day.
' Devin asks Sam if she was talking about him when she said she was frustrated and he said he wasn't sure. Jenn says, 'I'm feeling really confused about Sam. There is something that is not connecting that I am not understanding and I am not seeing, and it's because I don't feel like he can back up his feelings for me.
I don't understand where we're missing it with each other. Like, we've had such amazing moments together that it's like -- It's frustrating because, what is going wrong? I don't know.' Devin says to Jenn, 'I want you to know that I actually am enjoying the thought of you coming home to my family because I know exactly who you are, which is something that I could never say about my previous relationship.
I feel so strongly about you, and I have no doubts about who you are and the way you make me feel. I have only ever told my mom that I want to bring a girl home that makes me proud and makes her proud. And you are the definition of both of those things, so.
..' Jenn says, 'I'm feeling really confused about Sam.
There is something that is not connecting that I am not understanding and I am not seeing, and it's because I don't feel like he can back up his feelings for me. I don't understand where we're missing it with each other. Like, we've had such amazing moments together that it's like -- It's frustrating because, what is going wrong? I don't know.
' Jenn tells him, 'I do need to be honest with you...
I don't know. I feel like you didn't really see me, you didn't really understand me today. And we had such a great spark and chemistry from night one, but there's just something that's missing, and I feel like today it was becoming more and more apparent.
And I don't want to -- I don't want this to come off as, like, I'm, like, badgering you into -- but, like, I just -- I need answers, and I need to know how you feel and I need -- I need clarity.' Sam says, 'Yeah. So, the word that I gave you today was 'Selfless.
' Like, I don't -- I don't know. And I feel like..
. That's what I need, where I feel like every other relationship I had I'd didn't have that emotional support. And, like, yeah, so I come into this right here with this idea of, like, 'Yeah, how do I know it's you?' I don't.
I do trust that I'm here for a reason.' Jenn says, 'But that's you, and that's your journey and wanting to be here, and I don't -- I don't -- How do I fit into that?' Sam says, 'Like, you sit here and talk about how do you fit into this right here? It's a tough feeling. Like, I can't say that I can just sit here and, like -- Like, it's just something that I feel.
' Jenn says, 'But why me?' as Sam seems to break down emotionally as Jenn says, 'I think it's important for me to be able to understand where you're coming from and to be able to understand why. It's like you're saying that you want this, and I want this and..
.' as Sam blurts out, 'Because I love you.' Sam adds, 'You want to know why? Like, there's things that I have waited to say.
And, like, that feeling is extremely scary to me. Like, this is it.' Jenn admits in confession, 'I'm feeling frustrated and confused.
Where the hell is this coming from? To not be able to back up such a bold proclamation. I don't feel like..
.it's real to me.' She tells him, 'I just don't even feel like we truly know each other.
You can't even express to me who I am to you. And -- And it can't just be a feeling. Like, that's not real love.
' Jenn tells him, 'I do need to be honest with you...
I don't know. I feel like you didn't really see me, you didn't really understand me today. And we had such a great spark and chemistry from night one, but there's just something that's missing, and I feel like today it was becoming more and more apparent.
And I don't want to -- I don't want this to come off as, like, I'm, like, badgering you into -- but, like, I just -- I need answers, and I need to know how you feel and I need -- I need clarity' Sam adds, 'You want to know why? Like, there's things that I have waited to say. And, like, that feeling is extremely scary to me. Like, this is it' Sam says, 'We skipped over all of, like, the little conversations and stuff like that, and we just jumped, like, straight, like -- talking about, you know, ferocious love, talking about reckless love.
' Jenn says in confession, 'In the back of my head, like, it's like we're having the same conversations about ferocious love, but there's no substance there, there's no logic there. Like, I'm a little confused still. And I think, like, we just need more time to get there and more conversations to be had to, like, really understand each other and where we're at and -- and to get on the same page.
' Jenn goes back and tells the group that there will be no group date rose and adds that she thought she was so sure she wanted to meet Sam's family but now she's not so sure. Sam says the next day that he loves her and he hopes she knows he's telling the truth before Jenn goes on her one-on-one date with Jeremy. 'A whole one-on-one date is so eye-opening that I am so hopeful, but the whole date could also go really badly and I could not see a future with Jeremy at the end of the day,' she admits.
They go to Pike's Place Market as Jenn admits she's nervous and she and Jeremy are the most 'behind' with their feelings. Jeremy asks to go make her a bouquet, which she loves as Jeremy says he wants to make sure she's in 'good spirits.' 'I want her to come meet my family.
And I know she would love them and they would love her. It's a big deal to me. But right now, I'm just trying to take advantage of every minute I have with her and put a smile on her face,' Jeremy says in confession.
Sam says the next day that he loves her and he hopes she knows he's telling the truth before Jenn goes on her one-on-one date with Jeremy They go to Pike's Place Market as Jenn admits she's nervous and she and Jeremy are the most 'behind' with their feelings Jeremy asks to go make her a bouquet, which she loves as Jeremy says he wants to make sure she's in 'good spirits' 'I do really like her, and I have so much fun with her, but at the same time I feel pressure just because other guys are further along. So it's a big day,' he says. They go a 'romance test' machine and it is 'uncontrollable' as they visit a 'psychic chicken' as well.
They go to get their palms read and she starts to predict uncanny things like Jeremy being a drummer and a black belt. They visit Seattle's famous Gum Wall and he goes to touch it and she says not to and playfully calls him a 'weirdo.' They go and catch fish at the famous Pike's Place Market and are cheered on by the crowd.
Jenn says in confession, 'A future Jeremy looks so exciting to me. And we'd be laughing our little booties off. It's effortless because I'm so able to be myself at all times with Jeremy.
You know, I haven't had that in a lot of other relationships. And I feel like he really cares about me.' They go for lunch as Jeremy asks how her night was, as she says, 'It was a really interesting night for me.
I think the whole day...
the whole day was good. And then there was, like, a moment of confusion and frustration.' Jenn says, 'Today was a really, really good day.
I know that I can have fun with Jeremy and laugh and just have a good time, but hometowns are next week. And for me to be able to give a rose at the end of tonight, I need to feel confident that we have that emotional connection that I do have with these other guys here. So there's a lot riding on today.
' They go a 'romance test' machine and it is 'uncontrollable' as they visit a 'psychic chicken' as well They go to get their palms read and she starts to predict uncanny things like Jeremy being a drummer and a black belt They visit Seattle's famous Gum Wall and he goes to touch it and she says not to and playfully calls him a 'weirdo' They go for dinner as Jeremy says, 'I was just gonna thank you for an amazing day. Which I guess is a toast in itself. So thank you for an amazing day.
' Jenn says, 'Going into tonight, I wanted to make sure that every single person that I'm bringing into hometowns this next week knows who I am and knows what they want and I feel aligned with. So I want to see if Jeremy and I could do more than just have fun together. Can we have the same outlook on life and culture, tradition, family, and love? I'm going to need more from Jeremy to give him this hometown rose tonight.
' Jeremy tells her, 'I didn't know what we were going to do, but actually it was perfect because it was like a normal day to me. And I feel super close to you after today. It was fun exploring with you.
Jenn says, 'I do feel like a lot of our relationship is, like, laughing and having fun together because you bring out the most me out of anybody here. But I also was like, you know, I really wanted tonight to be able to dig into, like, a lot more serious stuff with you, like with hometowns being next week. I don't know.
Meeting families is important to me. And I think I need to be asking more serious questions of like, what do these guys see in me? Because at the end of the day, like, you can say you want an engagement, you can say you want a serious relationship, but, like, why with me? And how we're gonna fit our futures together into all of this, you know?' Jeremy says, 'At a certain point, it's just like, who do I want to be with that, like, makes me comfortable. And, like, makes me smile and laugh and that, like, right now, that's you.
Like, I love spending time with you. And I feel like I've always looked for someone who's like -- I'm not trying to compare you to my mom, but someone who's as, like, caring as my mom. She would do anything for the people that she loves.
.. Like you said you are.
She's, like, the nicest person I know, to a fault. Like, to an annoying part sometimes, which I've told her. She worries so much.
Very Jewish mom of her.' Jenn says, 'My mom's the same way. She's overbearing as hell, but it's all coming from a place of love, so I feel the struggle.
' Jeremy says, 'Like, if -- if you meet her, like, which hopefully you do...
She'll be like the nicest person ever.' Jenn says, 'I do feel like a lot of our relationship is, like, laughing and having fun together because you bring out the most me out of anybody here. But I also was like, you know, I really wanted tonight to be able to dig into, like, a lot more serious stuff with you, like with hometowns being next week.
I don't know. Meeting families is important to me. And I think I need to be asking more serious questions of like, what do these guys see in me? Because at the end of the day, like, you can say you want an engagement, you can say you want a serious relationship, but, like, why with me? And how we're gonna fit our futures together into all of this, you know?' They go for dinner as Jeremy says, 'I was just gonna thank you for an amazing day.
Which I guess is a toast in itself. So thank you for an amazing day' She asks, 'Have you introduced a lot of girls to your family before?' He says, 'I've brought two girls to my -- to my parents before. My mom has always made jokes like, 'Oh, gotta marry a Jew.
' But, like, also, both my exes were Catholic, and she loved both of them. Being Jewish, like, culturally, is, like, very important to me. I don't expect you to convert.
I don't need you to convert. But eventually I do want kids. And I think that having a Jewish identity.
.. Just 'cause of like obviously what's happened to Jews in the past.
And, like, my grandmother, who you'll maybe be able to meet -- like, her grandfather was, like, a very, like, famous rabbi in Lithuania. You know, died in the country because he wouldn't leave, like, when -- during World War II. Um, so, it is super important to me.
And I'm curious if that's something you'd ever be open to.' Jenn says, 'Well, I have a lot of Jewish friends in Miami. We do a little Shabbat.
We break some bread. We say 'Shabbat shalom.' It's fun.
Well, I'm like, just, like, really open to a lot of different things. But I also am Buddhist. And my family grew up going to temple for big holidays, which are things that I wouldn't want to give up.
And just, like, being around the faith, which I do love. And, um, I would want to be able to have my mom really, like, teach those things, like, to our kids and stuff like that.' Jeremy says, 'And obviously, if I'm asking for you to be willing to, I'm obviously open to that also.
It's really, like, the culture and family aspect...
- Absolutely, yeah. - ..
.Which I could tell you're about, too, so..
.,' as Jenn says, 'I love that you said that. That's what I want in my future family is, like, I really want to blend families together.
..' Jenn says, 'Jeremy makes me feel seen and heard.
I'm Buddhist, and, like, having two different cultures come together is never easy. But Jeremy and I talk a lot about faith and religion, and hearing him talk about kids, family, like, tradition makes me very sure that we can get deep and that there is another side to him. And it makes me feel really hopeful for our future.
' Jenn grabs a rose and says, 'Well, I think going into today, I was like, we can have so much fun together and we are so comfortable with each other, But I did want to know, like, if there was more there. We were able to touch on a lot of different things that make us who we are and what we want in the future, and I think we align on a lot of those. I do feel like, you know, you speak so highly of your family, and I'm so excited to meet your.
.. Mishpachah,' as they both laugh.
'Do you feel like you want that for us?' she asks and Jeremy says, 'I'm so excited to introduce you to my family. And I know they'll love you,' as he accepts her rose. 'Today has been incredible.
I had a great conversation with Jenn. We see relationships the same. We see family the same.
Yeah. Especially after tonight, I see a future with Jenn, and I really couldn't be happier,' Jeremy says in confession. 'I'm feeling so good.
Mishpachahmeans 'Family' in Hebrew, and I am excited to meet his mishpachah. Are you excited? - Very excited. Are you? - Good.
With Jeremy tonight, I got to see a different side of him that I haven't seen yet. He completely surprised me. He's someone that I can have fun with and have that emotional connection with.
And what we have is exactly what I've been looking for and what I know that I deserve,' Jenn says. Jenn says, 'Well, I have a lot of Jewish friends in Miami. We do a little Shabbat.
We break some bread. We say 'Shabbat shalom.' It's fun.
Well, I'm like, just, like, really open to a lot of different things. But I also am Buddhist. And my family grew up going to temple for big holidays, which are things that I wouldn't want to give up.
And just, like, being around the faith, which I do love. And, um, I would want to be able to have my mom really, like, teach those things, like, to our kids and stuff like that.' 'Do you feel like you want that for us?' she asks and Jeremy says, 'I'm so excited to introduce you to my family.
And I know they'll love you,' as he accepts her rose' Going into the rose ceremony, Jenn says, 'I only have two hometown roses to give out, so I have some really big decisions to make. The biggest thing I have to deal with tonight is Sam. I like Sam.
I see something with him. On night one, we had an amazing natural chemistry. I gave him my first impression rose.
I left that night feeling so excited for this journey with him. I had no doubt that I was gonna meet Sam's family because we had such a strong connection. He just made me so happy.
But on the radio date, I thought I was gonna learn some more things about how Sam felt about me. And he just can't even come up with one thing. He can't even come up with an adjective, a story, like, nothing.
And he just blurts out that he loves me? Like, I...
What the hell? I have so many questions that I need answers to. I'm confused. I don't understand.
But maybe there was something that I'm still missing. My connection with Sam has been so strong. It's like, if we can get through one more challenge together, it just seems like maybe we could get through anything.
And I owe it to myself to have a conversation with Sam and get to the bottom of this. And I'm gonna do that right now before the rose ceremony.' Jenn goes in to talk with Sam, surprising the other guys as they were not expecting her but she finally finds her.
She asks how he's feeling and he says he's, 'Terrified,' and he says, 'And I've been trying to walk this fine line of being vulnerable and also protecting my feelings in the same breath. But the only way for me to see it was to fall in love again.' Jenn admits, 'Okay.
I'm confused. I don't even know. I thought you were gonna say, like, 'Oh, I didn't mean to say I love you,' like.
..' Sam says, 'That's not -- I meant to say it.
- Like, what -- To you, what does it mean to love somebody? - For me, love is selfless. Love is sacrifice. Love is understanding and listening to the person that is in front of you, always validating them in whatever way that that means, making sure that this other person knows that you're the only person in the world that I see.
' Jenn admits, 'You're saying all the right things, and I just...
It's hard for me to believe you.' She adds in confession, 'Hearing Sam, nothing sounds genuine to me. I'm nervous that he's saying things to make me happy, and I just don't believe him when he says that.
' Sam admits, 'Having to put your feelings in words -- this is not my strong suit. I am -- This is, like, the biggest learning curve for me right now. There's no words that I can say that can describe the love because any-- everything that comes out of my mouth, I feel like I'm downplaying the way that I actually love.
We're right there to getting, you know, to hometowns, where everything that I'm trying to say would just be so f***ing evident in the way that I interact with my family and my friends. She asks how he's feeling and he says he's, 'Terrified,' and he says, 'And I've been trying to walk this fine line of being vulnerable and also protecting my feelings in the same breath. But the only way for me to see it was to fall in love again' Jenn admits in confession, 'I am so confused.
He's telling me, 'Oh, you'll see the love when I see my friends and family. Like, you'll see the way..
.' Like, I know you love your friends and family. But that doesn't mean that he loves me.
Right now, I need to know that he sees me and he understands me and he listens to me. I genuinely see something in you, and I genuinely want this to work. And I was so confused of like, how could someone that I feel like I have such a strong connection with not be seeing me? So, what do you see in me?' He tells her, 'I could go on about your passion for love, your desire for wanting a family, all these things that resonate with me.
But the fact of the matter is, is that there's other people out there with the same characteristics of you. I've had those people in front of me. Like, you look at me, and you're like -- You ask me these questions, hey, how do I know this? How do I know that? Like, I feel like you're looking at me waiting for this -- like, these answers with words.
I feel like...
Jenn says, 'That's not -- That's not what I'm saying. That's not what I'm saying. Sam admits, 'Here's my story.
I stepped out of the limo. Your energy soothed my nerves. That emotional connection.
' Jenn says, 'But that's just energy. I don't think that that's emotional connection,' as Sam says, 'This is the story. You cheersed to a ferocio]us love.
I felt that. That was another thing.' Jenn says, 'I'm not looking for a script.
Love isn't a script. You tell somebody..
.' Sam says, 'It's not a script. It's knowing that the person that you share a life with, you couldn't imagine a day without them.
' Jenn admits, 'I'm getting confused again. This is, like, just not good. And, like, he's dismissing me and he's not listening and he's not asking and it was just like -- I'm not seeing the love.
' Sam says to her, 'The second time that I got to talk to you was at the next rose ceremony. I took the biggest breath of air, and I felt life again. But, really, where everything switched for me was after the whole stripping thing.
You're, like, pouring into my emotional part.' Jenn admits in confession, 'I am so confused. He's telling me, 'Oh, you'll see the love when I see my friends and family.
Like, you'll see the way...
' Like, I know you love your friends and family. But that doesn't mean that he loves me. Right now, I need to know that he sees me and he understands me and he listens to me.
I genuinely see something in you, and I genuinely want this to work. And I was so confused of like, how could someone that I feel like I have such a strong connection with not be seeing me? So, what do you see in me?' Jenn says in confession, 'What the hell does that even mean?' Sam adds, 'And then we get to the one-on-one,' and Jenn asks, 'What did you learn about me that night?' Sam says, 'I learned that you yearn for a love that's so powerful, that's endless,' and Jenn asks, 'What else did you learn about me that night?' Sam says, 'First..
. You have no idea how much I appreciate you. And now I see it.
I love you.' Jenn says in confession, 'But to love someone means to really understand them. He's fighting for this love and this relationship for who? I could -- I could literally be anybody right now, and it wouldn't matter.
' Sam tells her, 'I'm a firm believer that you don't get to pick who you love. You saw the best in me whenever I couldn't even see it,' as Jenn says, 'I just need a second. I think I just need a second,' and storms out of the room.
Jenn says in confession, 'I just -- I feel confused. It's just words and words and words, and it's not -- It's not -- I don't know. It's not answering anything for me.
I feel annoyed, frustrated, dismissed, ignored. It's like, he hasn't even asked me how I'm feeling. He doesn't even ask me where my head is at.
And he's just talking, talking, talking. It's like, I'm, like, trying to listen to him, and now I'm even more confused. And that's why this is making it so hard for me to see.
Oh, it is so -- I don't -- Like, it's not black and white, right? It's not clear-cut. And I don't know what to do.' The rest of the guys try to figure out what's happening as Jenn goes back to Sam and tells him, 'I think that it's been a confusing week.
It's been a confusing journey for us both. But, like, since the beginning, there was so much there, and I really want it to work for us and I really want it to be real between us. But I feel like going into this conversation today, like, I wanted to be able to also explain to you how I was feeling about everything, and you didn't even ask me what I need from you.
And I feel like we're just like at this disconnect and I don't know what it is and I just don't...
' Sam blurts out, 'I feel like you've been looking -- You've been -- You're waiting for this, like, answer and this response.' Sam blurts out, 'I feel like you've been looking -- You've been -- You're waiting for this, like, answer and this response.' Jenn says, 'I'm not.
You tell somebody you love them, you should be able to say 100 other things that you love about them or even like about them and that you see in them and want to know about them and...
' Sam says, 'Yeah. Like I said, this whole -- this whole journey for me,' as Jenn cuts her off, 'For you. Again.
I -- I can't do this. I can't sit here with someone who says that they love me, but doesn't even really want to get to know me and understand me and see me.' Sam says, 'Everything that I said to you, you didn't hear,' as she says, 'I heard them.
I just don't think there was any weight to them. And I don't think that -- Like, you telling me that you love me? You don't understand me. You don't know me.
And it's like, I know what I deserve, and I know the love that I deserve. And the way that this is reminds me so much of a relationship that I'd already put in the past. I've been through this so many times, teaching people what love means, teaching people how to prioritize me.
I've closed this chapter in my life already. I'm done. I'm done with it.
She gives him a hug and storms out of the room as Sam starts packing. 'Yeah, that's frustrating. Um, I didn't think that today was gonna be my time to go home.
You know, it sucks, but the energy that she brought was very dull. It's not my fault, you know? And this is one thing that I stand 10 toes down on. At the end of the day, it just -- It is what it is.
I will always keep the main thing, the main thing. And my main thing is finding that person that I love and the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, so..
. Yeah.' Sam packs up and leaves the show as Jenn explains, 'It's just not my definition of love.
It's just not -- It's not right. Listen, I don't know exactly what love is, but I know that that is not what love is. I really pride myself on reading people well and being intuitive, and I am so mad that I got it wrong.
It was a relationship in which it was mainly physical. He didn't really try to get to know me and had this idea of me. It's not me.
Like, he doesn't know me. This is another turning point. I would not have been able to do this a year ago, maybe even a couple months ago.
I understand my worth and what I deserve and understand what I want. What I want is not Sam. I've been there, done that, and I'm not doing it again.
I'm done. This is not what love should feel like. Putting somebody else first.
That's what love is.' The remaining six get ready for the rose ceremony as Jonathon admits that Sam leaving was not expected. Two more roses are left to give for the hometowns, with two set to be eliminated as Spencer says if he doesn't get picked it would be, 'a dagger to the heart.
' She gives Devin and Jonathon roses, sending Grant and Spencer home just before Hometown Week. Sam says, 'Yeah. Like I said, this whole -- this whole journey for me,' as Jenn cuts her off, 'For you.
Again. I -- I can't do this. I can't sit here with someone who says that they love me, but doesn't even really want to get to know me and understand me and see me.
' He calls his mother and tells her he's coming home as the four remaining bachelors - Devin, Jonathon, Marcus and Jeremy - toast to, 'our futures, to meeting your loved ones, to Hometowns,' as the episode comes to an end. Grant says, 'I feel empty right now. I don't know, Jenn's a great woman.
She's a great woman, and, uh...
I expressed my love for her. Like, I poured everything out, and it wasn't good enough.' He adds, 'It just sucks knowing that you feel some way about somebody and that they don't feel the same about you, you know? - Okay.
Grant: I want a family, you know? I want to be happy. I want a wife. I want to be in love.
I want that, you know? I want to give everything to somebody, and I want them to give everything to me in return. I don't know what else to say. I did not think that was gonna happen tonight.
Spencer says, 'Jenn's the first woman I've met since my last breakup where I've, like -- I've seen the path towards an engagement. And losing that stings. It's just, every time, it just doesn't work out.
I don't know what to do.' He calls his mother and tells her he's coming home as the four remaining bachelors - Devin, Jonathon, Marcus and Jeremy - toast to, 'our futures, to meeting your loved ones, to Hometowns,' as the episode comes to an end. TV content The Bachelorette Share or comment on this article: The Bachelorette: Jenn Tran DUMPS Sam after surprising claims that he 'loves' her before she sends two more packing before Hometowns e-mail Add comment.
