DEAR DEIDRE: SICK of my sleazy husband, I got myself a revenge toyboy. We have wild nights of virtual sex, and exchange explicit messages all day, but I’m not sure he’s to be trusted.My husband and I have been together since we were teenagers.
We’re both now in our late 50s, although I look younger.My husband is overweight and a drinker and hasn’t been able to get an erection since Boris Johnson was Prime Minister.But I stuck by him, until I borrowed his iPad last year to look at photos of our grandchildren.
I discovered my husband had been sexting multiple other women, asking them to send him nude photos and videos.I was devastated. To cheer myself up, I started spending more time online myself, and I’ve fallen in love with a younger man from Tunisia.
He’s only 40 and very handsome. He loves older women and calls me “Beautiful”. Although the sex is only virtual (we do sexy FaceTime calls when my husband is at the pub), it’s electric.
He loves my body and the sight of him wanting me is incredibly arousing.However, I’m uncertain about the future. My Tunisian lover is cagey about certain details.
I don’t know his address, and sometimes he disappears for days at a time. He also doesn’t seem to work, aside from selling second-hand clothes and records on the local market. He has needed money for medical appointments and rent, so I’ve sent him quite a lot.
I’m now worried he’s only with me for the cash.He seems to care for me. When I told him I was worr.
