confidently declared she no longer needs a man as she prepares to divorce although she did conceded that the initial feelings of a break up left her feeling "lonely" and "desperate". The On The Floor singer filed for divorce on August 20, the second anniversary of her wedding to the 52-year-old actor in Georgia, citing irreconcilable differences as the reason for their separation which she said took place on April 26. It was also revealed that the pair spent neither of their birthdays together, nor their anniversary, as moved out of their shared home and effectively abandoned his 55-year-old wife by relocating to Brentwood, then Pacific Palisades.
Yet whilst she accepted it took a toll on her, as has previous relationships, she said that she's capable of bouncing back and that she now realizes she is no longer defined by her partnerships and can be happy on her own. "It feels lonely, unfamiliar, scary. It feels sad.
It feels desperate," said of break-ups to Interview.com. "But when you sit in those feelings and go, 'These things are not going to kill me,' it's like actually, I am capable of joy and happiness all by myself.
"Being in a relationship doesn't define me. I can't be looking for happiness in other people. I have to have happiness within myself.
"I used to say I'm a happy person, but was still looking for something for somebody else to fill, and it's just like, 'No, I'm actually good.'" Lopez sets her standard of love, but with a twist Now technically on the market, .
