I found a hidden tab in my boyfriend's phone - what I saw on there was so disgusting everyone says I should RUN A man kept a written tally of the number of times he and his girlfriend had sex READ MORE: A couple reveals the bizarre system they use to initiate sex By Amanda Bechara For Daily Mail Australia Published: 03:03, 20 August 2024 | Updated: 03:03, 20 August 2024 e-mail View comments A woman was disturbed to discover that her boyfriend was keeping a 'creepy' note in his phone recording how often they have sex. The anonymous girlfriend has been with her partner for a year and describes their sex life as 'healthy' - apart from one time when they weren't intimate for five days. 'We've had one situation where a new lube we tried didn't agree with me so we had to give it a rest, and I've just found out he keeps a tally,' she said.
Her partner let the secret tally slip after they were both discussing 'how good last night was', leading him to say it had been five days - as he keeps count on his phone. The disturbed woman thought it was 'odd' to record the exact number of intimate encounters, so she decided to ask more questions and the answers were unsettling. 'His explanation was that he keeps count to make sure we don't have problems in our relationship.
..and that he's doing enough to satisfy me,' she said.
'He...
keeps mental tabs on everything like if he's done the dishes enough and if he's bought me flowers lately...
but sex is the only thing he keeps a written count on. 'Then he said he's done this with all his exes and none of them had an issue with it and I'm the only one that has. It just feels off to me.
' The boyfriend claims to have kept a tally of the number of sexual encounters with each of his previous girlfriends Things went from bad to worse when the suspicious girlfriend asked if she could see the note on the phone for herself, when her boyfriend claimed he had deleted it. 'It's getting more and more strange in my gut. Would this make you feel weird? Or am I being overly dramatic?' she asked.
Read More I asked my husband for a divorce because of his weird habit in the car Most women agreed that the 'major red flag' behaviour was 'creepy', secretive and controlling - and not something they would tolerate. 'This is super weird and he's 100 per cent lying that all his exes were okay with it, no they weren't,' one woman said. 'It's super immature and ick,' another agreed.
'Yeah, nah, I'd be walking away,' a third said. A few people told the woman to run, especially as her gut was telling her something is off - regardless of her boyfriend claiming that his exes thought it was okay. 'Using his exes as a reason why you should be okay with it is not.
..logical, it only takes one person in a relationship to have an issue with something for it to be an issue,' one woman said.
'Listen to your gut, if you feel uneasy about it and he wants to resolve it he needs to be open so you both feel comfortable moving forward.' Several people thought that boyfriend's compulsive list-keeping might actually be a sign of an undiagnosed neurological disorder, such as autism. 'I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought this.
So many people jump to negative conclusions, when it could be as simple as being on the higher end of the spectrum,' one woman said. Others suggested that tracking sex can be completely normal under certain circumstances. 'Some women track sex for period reasons or fertility, it's not controlling,' one said.
'Is he trying to get you pregnant without your knowledge?' another asked. But whether it was okay to keep count or not - most people agreed that lying and deleting things were not good signs. One Sex and The City fan said that the original poster should ask herself what Carrie Bradshaw would do.
'And Carrie would be walking,' she said. Share or comment on this article: I found a hidden tab in my boyfriend's phone - what I saw on there was so disgusting everyone says I should RUN e-mail Add comment.
