Have you ever paused to think how fortunate you are? If you’re reading this, it’s likely that you have access to knowledge, a roof over your head, and food on your table-privileges many might take for granted. Yet, we often find ourselves preoccupied with the future, which is beyond our control, or dwelling on the past, which has already slipped away. In the hustle of life, we often forget to express gratitude for the present.
When was the last time you stepped outside to enjoy the drizzle, to feel the calming touch of nature? True happiness doesn’t come from wealth or material possessions. It comes from the simple things-the pure, unadulterated moments that we often overlook. This idea might sound simple, but it holds great power.
By shifting our mindset, we can bring more joy into our lives. We just need to stop focusing on what’s wrong and start noticing the small, beautiful moments that surround us. It could be the sight of a tiny flower on the pavement, a butterfly fluttering outside your window, a bird catching a fish, or a squirrel hiding a hazelnut.
Maybe it’s a neighbour holding the door open for you. These little things, often unnoticed, are what make life beautiful. Life isn’t about rushing from one thing to the next.
When we constantly look to the future, we miss out on today. So, make an effort to focus on the here and now. To start, schedule a few moments each day-two or three times a day, even-to stop and take in what’s happening around you.
If it helps, set a reminder. When you do pause, engage all your senses. What do you hear, taste, feel, see? Take a minute to absorb it all and allow yourself to feel whatever emotions arise.
This practice will help you become more aware of the present, making it easier to notice the “little” things around you. Also, try setting aside a few minutes each day to be alone with your thoughts. It doesn’t have to be long-five or ten minutes is enough.
You can even combine this with time spent outside, assuming it’s quiet and peaceful. Use these moments to sit quietly and let your thoughts surface. In doing so, you’ll cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and the world around you-an essential step toward finding happiness in the little things.
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