There was a huge starfruit tree in the middle of Cubbon Park, the story goes. An old woman sat under the tree, gathered the fallen starfruit, cut them in half, sprinkled a mixture of salt and chili powder on the cut fruit, and sold them to returning school children for a few paise. Everyone was happy: the old woman, the children, and the tree.
Bangalore is full of apocryphal tales like this, ranging from the origin of its name. But this tale got me thinking about happiness and whether it was possible to access it for cheap – specifically for under ₹ 100. So here are some things that I have tried.
1. Every happiness study points to human connection as the real route to happiness. Aristotle said that humans are “social” animals, which means that even if we call ourselves loners or introverts, connecting to humans will improve happiness.
The new phrase for this is “micro-moments of connection.” In India, we are blessed because we are surrounded by humans, even at home. So the next time your milk-man, courier, postman, iron-man or flower-delivery rings your doorbell, think of connecting with them.
You will be surprised at what ensues. 2. When a courier knocks on your door this winter season, take the package and say, “Put on a sweater, why don’t you? Bangalore is cold these days.
” I guarantee you that it will put a smile on his lips and warm your cockles. If you can say this in Kannada, even better. You will experience a micro-moment of connection and joy.
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