Bridal expert reveals ultimate list of dos and don'ts for wedding guests - and finally settles the debate on whether you can wear white Bridal experts Jennifer Read-Dominguez and Liza Baucher give their top tips READ MORE: Unconventional way couple saved $70k on wedding costs By Alice Wade Published: 09:54 EDT, 26 August 2024 | Updated: 10:03 EDT, 26 August 2024 e-mail View comments The classic tale of a wedding ruined by an attention-grabbing guest isn't the only way a bride and groom's loved ones can cause a disaster on the big day. From ignoring the gift requests to wearing white ensembles and making announcements of their own, there's plenty of ways to unwittingly take the shine off the special occasion. Thankfully, wedding experts have told FEMAIL the ultimate list of dos and don'ts for guests to help prevent any dramas.
Here, Editor of Rock My Wedding and bridal expert, Jennifer Read-Dominguez and The Wedding Shop gift guru, Liza Baucher, reveal their top tips. The classic tale of a wedding ruined by an attention-grabbing guest isn't the only way a bride and groom's loved ones can cause a disaster on the big day (stock photo) DON'T EVER WEAR WHITE TO A WEDDING Jennifer says: '2024 and beyond is all about the unconventional wedding and the wedding dress is no exception. 'We're seeing fresh modern twists on traditional wedding fashion whether that be multiple outfits for the ceremony and reception or chic short wedding dress styles, bridal suits, and separates.
'However, while brides are opting for non-traditional wedding dresses in colours other then white, such as blush, champagne, or even bold shades like red or black - the general rule that guests should never wear white or ivory to a wedding still applies (unless you're asked to by the bride of course). 'It's also worth avoiding colours close to white such as creamy hues, champagne and even light shades of pink, gold and tan.' ALWAYS CONSIDER THE DRESS CODE 'Is the wedding black tie, formal or cocktail semi-formal? It's expected that you follow the dress code,' insisted Jennifer.
'Beyond not wearing any form of white, make sure your outfit is appropriate and aligns with the suggested wedding attire. 'And of course, a destination wedding on a beach abroad will require a total different look to a castle or barn wedding in the UK so don't forget to consider the location and weather when deciding on your wedding guest outfit. 'You also don't want to be mistaken for a bridesmaid or groomsman so make sure you know the couple's colour palette for the wedding.
'The invitation should give you some insight, but it doesn't hurt to ask a member of the wedding party if you're unsure.' Thankfully, wedding experts have told FEMAIL the ultimate list of dos and don'ts for guests to help prevent any dramas (stock photo) DON'T MAKE ANY ANNOUNCEMENTS AT SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING 'Since family and friends are all gathered together in celebration and love is in the air, it could be tempting to propose to your other half at a wedding - don't,' warned Jennifer. 'Even if it's a wedding weekend and not just one day, it's a no.
In fact, don't make any big announcements at someone else's wedding - it's their day, not yours. 'To that end, leave all your baggage, personal woes, family or friend past arguments and grudges at home.' DON'T IGNORE GIFT REQUESTS Liza explained: 'In most cases, couples create a wedding gift list to guide guests in selecting gifts that suit their personal taste and style so will be appreciated.
'Selecting an item from the gift list or 'wedding registry' makes sure the gift you give is something the couple wants or needs at the time of the wedding. 'Does the invitation clearly request no gifts but a donation towards a honeymoon fund? Do remember that most couples now already live together so may not need physical gifts. 'Honeymoon funds are becoming an increasingly popular modern alternative to traditional wedding gift lists with guests able to feel like they've contributed directly to the couple's honeymoon expenses, including flights, accommodation, activities, and dining.
' DO CONSIDER GROUP GIFTING Liza says group gifting is on the rise: 'This past year we have seen a big increase in group gifting for weddings. 'It's an approach that benefits both the couple and their guests, creating a scenario where everyone feels comfortable and included. 'For the happy couple, group gifting allows for the inclusion of higher-priced items on their wedding gift list without placing the burden of a large expense on any single guest.
'This could be anything from luxury homeware, top-of-the-range appliances, or even contributions towards a dream honeymoon. Such items might otherwise be too expensive for individual guests to purchase alone. 'From a guest's perspective, group gifting offers a convenient and collaborative way to contribute to a more significant gift.
'It's especially ideal for friends or family members who might want to pool their resources to give the couple something truly special and memorable. 'This way, guests can contribute what they're comfortable with, ensuring that no one feels pressured to spend beyond their means.' Share or comment on this article: Bridal expert reveals ultimate list of dos and don'ts for wedding guests - and finally settles the debate on whether you can wear white e-mail Add comment.
