We’ve all heard the age-old advice about other people’s problems and how they shouldn’t become our own. But what happens when you’re an advice columnist, whose job it is to help people find the solutions to their predicaments? As one of the Irish Independent ’s agony aunts, chartered psychologist and author, Allison Keating receives hundreds of letters each year from people seeking help with relationship problems, family issues and the whole kit and caboodle of personal crises..