A woman decided to never bake for her husband again after a mishap with his birthday cake. In a recent Reddit post shared to the popular “Am I The A**hole?” subreddit , she explained that her husband is lactose intolerant but loves banana cake, so she made him a vegan one from scratch on his birthday. After noting the cake, he told her “he didn’t know why I had baked him some cake if I already knew he didn’t like them because he has not eaten it so many years that he doesn’t even like it anymore.
” “I felt hurt and didn’t say a thing there. I thought that he would appreciate me baking a cake for his birthday because that’s what his mom used to do when he was a kid and he always makes a comment about me not baking the kids’ cakes,” she wrote in the Reddit post. The woman continued, expressing her confusion because she normally purchases a banana cake from the bakery for him, which he always praises.
“The rest of the celebration, I was trying to act normal, but he noticed and when everyone left, he asked if I was ok. I said I was never going to bake him something. His answer was, thank you and that I was being unfair with him because I should have already know[n],” the post continued.
She concluded by saying that the couple share a birthday, so she also made a second birthday cake for herself. After posting, many people took to the comments section to validate the woman’s feelings, explaining that it doesn’t make sense for her husband to claim he .