A woman discovered a secret about her husband three years after their wedding, and the internet thinks it’s grounds for divorce. In a recent Reddit post shared to the popular “Am I The A**hole?” subreddit, the wife explained that many people have previously referred to her husband’s ex-girlfriend as “the one who got away.” She shared that her husband ended the relationship because he didn’t see a future with her, which left his close friends and family “shocked” at the time.

“Then we met and I soon understood that everyone from his side preferred her,” the woman wrote on Reddit. She explained that her husband “never gave [her] any reason to doubt him” and that “he knew exactly what he wanted,” so much so that he told her he loved her just a few months into their relationship. She continued: “He is fully aware of what people think about him leaving his ex and he gave the impression that he thought they were silly and childish.

He told his mom that I am who he chosen [sic] and if she wanted a part of it, she needed to clean up her act.” The couple have since been married for three years and welcomed their first child together. However, things took a turn when her mother-in-law came to visit their newborn daughter.

Her husband’s mother made a passing comment, saying she “wondered what would have happened if he changed his mind” about his ex-girlfriend, and questioned whether she’d be looking at the ex’s baby instead. While the husband .