Why men cheat and why it doesn’t have to kill your marriage, by a marital therapist who's saved hundreds of seemingly doomed relationships Andrew G. Marshall has spent more than 30 years working with couples in crisis He claims that couples who've struggled with cheating have a ray of hope Says couples can bounce back when husbands sleep with other women By Andrew G Marshall For The Daily Mail Published: 12:01, 26 July 2024 | Updated: 12:02, 26 July 2024 e-mail View comments You'd think if someone was caught having an affair they'd make a full confession. You'd think they would know if they wanted to stay or leave.
You'd think they would be able to explain why they were unfaithful. You'd think that if they promised to 'fight' for their marriage that their actions would match their words. However, for lots of people recovery is not so straightforward and takes far longer than they would have imagined on discovery day.
Sometimes the person who has been unfaithful vows to do 'anything' to make it better, but the next day sabotages everything. Andrew G. Marshall, above, has spent more than 30 years working with couples in crisis, especially through cheating Sometimes the discoverer of the infidelity is besieged by horrible images or overcome with anxiety - even though they want to move forward.
Sometimes the betrayal has been so great - multiple affairs, illicit dating sites, prostitutes or cheating with a friend - that recovery is much harder. If you can't get over your partne.