The curse of being married to J-Lo: From the waiter who wanted her to be 'washing dishes at home' to fame-traumatised dancer Cris Judd - what happened to star's ex husbands as she files for divorce a fourth time READ MORE: Jennifer Lopez files for DIVORCE from Ben Affleck Have YOU got a story? Email tips@dailymail.com By Amelia Wynne For Mailonline Published: 07:28 EDT, 21 August 2024 | Updated: 07:31 EDT, 21 August 2024 e-mail View comments J ennifer Lopez officially called it quits on her marriage to Ben Affleck after the singer filed for divorce herself on Tuesday. The latest divorce will be 55-year-old Jennifer's fourth - and Ben's second, who was previously married to actress Jennifer Garner .

She was married to former waiter Ojani Noa from 1997 until 1998, then Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003 and Marc Anthony from 2004-2014. Many of her exes have been left trailing in the wake of her successful music and acting career after they split. J-Lo once brutally described former waiter Ojani as not 'having it together' and pointed out he would 'never make as much money as her'.

He is now a personal trainer sharing fitness videos to his Instagram. Meanwhile Cris - who now runs dance workshops - previously described the trauma of having his 'privacy breached' during their relationship and said their wedding turned into a 'circus'. So what has become of the pop superstars ex husband as she goes through divorce number four: Jennifer Lopez officially called it quits on her marriage to B.