Warning: Strictly adults only If things are feeling a little stale in your relationship, or you’re single and looking for a new partner, we have a raft of stories featuring expert advice and top tips to get things back on track in the bedroom. Twice, 12 or 24 times a month – is your sex drive normal? How often do you have sex? So regularly you lose track? Once in a blue moon, or on every birthday? Or precisely twice a month, diarised, like comedian Katherine Ryan? In a recent interview with The Times , the Irish-Canadian comic was both open and specific about the nature of her marital relations; she and husband Bobby Kootstra “have sex exactly twice a month”. Ryan logs it every time, “in case I do get pregnant”.
Whether this revelation engendered a “wow, that’s pretty often” or an “actually, that feels modestly achievable” reaction, it’s rare to hear anyone admitting how much – or little – sex they have. Ryan’s refreshing admission has done us all a favour – not least because it opens up the conversation. Read the full story here How to have good sex in your 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s and 80s From illness to stress, any number of things can affect intimacy.
Here experts reveal the ways to boost bedroom satisfaction as you age. Can you have great sex at any age? “Yes, but we have to define what great sex means,” says Ammanda Major, a sex therapist and the head of clinical practice at Relate. “If you look at movies or social media, it’s generally.