SAUCY SECRETS: My boyfriend had an affair with a friend of mine. Now I want to tell the world his dark secret as revenge. Should I do it?

SAUCY SECRETS: My boyfriend had an affair with a friend of mine. Now I want to tell the world his dark secret as revenge. Should I do it? Jana Hocking offers advice to Aussies who confess their dark secrets READ MORE: My boss is 12 years older and we have a secret work relationship By Jana Hocking for Daily Mail Australia Published: 21:48 BST, 21 September 2024 | Updated: 22:09 BST, 21 September 2024 e-mail 1 View comments Dear Jana, I broke up with my boyfriend when I found out he was having an affair with a friend-of-a-friend.

They're now together and flaunting it all over social media. I've heard through the grapevine that he's involved in some light drug trafficking and I'm tempted to dob him in. I'm trying to justify it to myself by believing it's for the good of the community, but deep down I know it's just petty revenge for breaking my heart and making me look like a fool, but why should he continue to live an amazing life while I'm still dealing with the saddness of it all.

Petty but pretty. Dear Petty but pretty, Stand down beautiful scorned one. You are not superwoman fighting crimes, you are but an angry ex seeking vengeance.

Which is cute in our crime series, but not in real life. And it's not using your energy wisely. Instead of breaking your own heart each time you log onto the socials and spot their cringe couple photos, simply block and delete.

Be a ruthless queen. And instead of dobbing him in for drug trafficking, why not focus on giving yourself a glow up? .