Today marks my 20th wedding anniversary, a milestone that fills me with profound gratitude and joy. These two decades spent with the best person in the world have been filled with love, laughter, and a fair share of challenges. Marriage, like any relationship, is not a passive journey — it requires constant effort, time, and a balanced give and take.
In the space of 20 years we have lived in two countries, worked for nearly a dozen employers between us and lived in too many houses to even count. Thankfully buying our own 10 years ago. Over the years, we’ve raised three wonderful children who, in their unique ways, embody bits and pieces of both my wife and I.
Watching them grow has been one of the many joys of our marriage, a testament to the life we’ve built together. Am I still in love? Oh my goodness, yes I am. How do I know I still love my wife after all these years? It’s simple.
My job is both stressful and rewarding, bringing moments of elation and times of frustration. Whether my day is great or challenging, I always look forward to coming home to her. On a good day, I can’t wait to share the funny stories, the successes, and the small victories with her over a cup of coffee.
On a bad day, her presence is my solace. Just being with her, talking, and unwinding helps me navigate through the toughest times. Her presence has a calming effect that I cherish deeply.
Over the years, our dreams and priorities have evolved. What once seemed crucial in our younger year.