A mum has sparked a heated debate after revealing her discomfort with a friend who treats herself to luxury food from Marks & Spencer and Waitrose while serving her kids budget "basic" meals. The woman took to Mumsnet to vent her frustration, claiming that despite being able to afford it, her pal insists premium food is "too expensive" for her children. "She buys frozen food for them and buys herself good quality, expensive food," the anonymous poster shared.
The concerned mum, who admits to having "skipped meals so her children can eat", pointed out that her friend's kids "are not fussy" and have enjoyed a variety of foods at her own home, including fruits and vegetables. However, at their own home, they're given frozen dinners along with biscuits and chocolate for snacks. She questioned: "Am I being unreasonable? I know this is probably not a big deal as the children are fed, but I feel uncomfortable by the fact my friend buys herself good quality expensive food but gives her children basic brands.
She buys beige frozen food for them from Asda (yellow package) - which is fine as I have bought some myself on occasion. Then, she will go to Waitrose or M&S to buy herself nice food." Her concern extends to the health of the children, confessing she "can't turn a blind eye" to the situation.
She explained: "I'm no saviour, just concerned she favours her health above her children's. The last time I visited there was a tonne of fresh vegetables stacked on the counter, I told her i.