: What is the appropriate way to address people who cut in line, specifically at theme parks with long lines (60+ minutes) and limited staff? Related Articles My family was recently at a large, well-attended theme park, and had multiple encounters with individuals cutting in line. Half of our group felt it was fine to block the line cutters and prevent them from continuing, while the other half felt that doing so was disruptive to other guests and not worth the aggravation. Given that there were no park workers in sight to address the problem, what would you suggest? : “Excuse me, but there is a line here and the rest of us are waiting in it.

” In this case, Miss Manners believes that words are more effective than (disruptive) actions. : I have an acquaintance who has been in my home a few times, even though I’ve never invited him over. He has shown up at my door without calling or texting, and asked to come in for tea.

He’s pleasant, and I don’t mind the company when I’m free. But on a recent visit, he said I should keep my home tidier if I wanted him to come over again. I keep my house clean, but he has shown up when I’ve been in the middle of folding laundry, for example.

Or when I had some papers on the coffee table, a towel hanging to dry in the bathroom, my gym shoes beside the door and a coffee cup beside the kitchen sink. When I’m expecting guests, I make my home look like nobody lives there. But am I really obligated to keep my home constantly spotless.