I loathe dogs, but I live in a dog-lover’s paradise. Related Articles How can I let neighbors and strangers know that I don’t want to pet their dog or let it sniff me? “I’m allergic” is dishonest. “I don’t like dogs” sounds like something is wrong with me.
“Dogs just aren’t my thing” is not very clear. I survived an abusive childhood where my parents sicced dogs on me, but I should not have to explain this. I get it that people love their pets and consider them “family,” and I don’t mind standing around and chatting with the dogs present.
I just don’t want to get closer. What can I say that politely gets pet owners to, well, call off the dogs? “I’m afraid that dogs and I don’t always get along. If you don’t mind, I will keep my distance.
” We must hope that the implication that the dogs keep theirs, as well, is understood. What is the proper response to someone who is very vocal when you are driving, and not in a way that is helpful? For example, when I am driving us to a restaurant and we pull into the parking lot, they will tell me I could have used a closer entrance. (I may or may not have seen the other entrance, but either way, it really didn’t matter.
) Or when parking, they will speak up about every parking space I pass. (I like spaces with adequate room around them. Plus, walking a little farther doesn’t hurt anyone.
) I have more than one friend who does these things every time I drive, and it is really getting on my nerves. M.