We’ve been trying to sell our nearly 20-year-old SUV. Like most sellers, there are things we say about a used vehicle and things we don’t say. Lori Borgman When an interested buyer asked about mileage, I said, “It has 221,500 miles on it.

” What I didn’t say was that I helped put a lot of those early miles on it with my dad when he bought the Ford Explorer, Eddie Bauer edition, two years after Mom died. One fall, Dad and I drove Eddie to see his remaining brothers in Nebraska. Our last stop was Beaver City, a small bend in the road where his older brother had been town sheriff before retiring.

After a good visit and a lot of strong coffee, we left early the next morning heading south on a two-lane that would lead us into Kansas on our way back to Missouri. Dad was raised on a farm and forever loved open prairies, lone cottonwoods and hot summer days. There wasn’t another soul or vehicle in sight on that straight-line road.

The sun inched over the horizon and spread a peach glow across endless fields. It was so beautiful that neither of us spoke. We just soaked it in — the morning, the beauty and the silence.

“You’ve sure had this vehicle a long time,” the prospective buyer said. “We have,” I said. What I didn’t say is that we tried selling it a while back.

We were on our way to a dealership to use it as a trade-in on a new car, but I got all weepy, so my better half turned around and we drove back home. “How many owners?” the interested party aske.