Lasizwe Dambuza joins Chrizelda Kekana in conversation on Brand New Adults. (Supplied) Join Chrizelda Kekana and reality TV star Lasizwe on this episode of Brand New Adults as they go down memory, recounting their most embarrassing moments and celebrating their wins, all in the context of brand new life problems such as the balance between keeping up appearances versus staying true and living within your means, in a world where Instagram is "seemingly" the standard. Join us for a relatable, light-hearted conversation; you may just learn something! Maybe we should have paid a bit more attention to Brenda Fassie when she said, "Umuntu ngeke um'confirm'e" .

Instead, we all just danced and missed the point. In our defense, we were young, and no matter how hard they tried, nobody could have warned us about just how true it is that people will never be satisfied. In our young adulthood journey, both Lasizwe and I learned the hard way that people-pleasing is a futile exercise.

The worst part is the people-pleasing involved money we worked so very hard to earn...

think buying a Beemer when what you can truly afford is a Tazz...

And when all our money was gone, in the name of living up to Instagram standards, there was no one there to save us. Now that we know better..

.kind of, we chat all about it. Laughing instead of crying, listing the lessons learned and hoping you don't have to learn the hard way.

Enjoy the conversation! We live in a world where facts and fiction get blurred Who .