Welp, we're officially entering month four of "what is going on with Ben Affleck and J.Lo?" and according to the couple are no longer speaking. The outlet reports that "things are not amicable" between Ben and Jen, that "lines of communication are closed," and that the drama is "slowing down their divorce.

" That said, Bennifer would be able to have a "quickie divorce" if it wasn't for their lack of communication and "icy relationship." Mostly because they have a prenup and their only shared asset is a giant mansion, which is currently listed for $68 million. Per , J.

Lo and Ben are working out their alleged divorce through business managers instead of lawyers, but it's "complicated" since they aren't talking to each other. Apparently they'll "eventually" hire divorce lawyers but won't file their documents until a settlement is reached so..

.stay tuned? For what it's worth, this bummer update comes just weeks after the reported that Jen and Ben communicating via letters, since that's what "made them fall in love in the first place.” A source even told the outlet that "They just have to find what got them back together in the first place and there is definitely a chance that three will be a charm when and if that happens, they aren’t throwing in the towel.

They are taking it day by day and they don’t want to get divorced." Unclear what changed, but now seems like a good time to point out that Ben bought himself a new L.A.

home on J.Lo's literal birthday..

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