BIRTHDAY girl Jennifer Lopez chooses a playful look as she points the way to celebrations with family and friends. The singer and actress, who turns 55 tomorrow, had a weekend of fun, including a Bridgerton -themed party on Saturday in The Hamptons. But while she enjoyed herself in New York state , actor husband Ben Affleck , 51, stayed 2,800 miles away.

Amid rumours of marriage troubles, he was instead pictured with his daughter Violet, 18, in LA . They still wear their wedding rings — maybe papering over the cracks. In May, the singer announced that she was cancelling the rest of the tour to spend more time with her family.

READ MORE ON J-LO Sources revealed that the singer's decision is due to a sensitive time in her personal life. In a special message to her fans, Jennifer, 51, wrote, "I am completely heartsick and devastated about letting you down." The Atlas actress continued, "Please know that I wouldn’t do this if I didn’t feel that it was absolutely necessary.

"I promise I will make it up to you and we will all be together again. I love you all so much. Until next time.

..” Most read in Celebrity Live Nation reps announced that the summer tour, This Is Me.

.. Live, which was scheduled to begin June 26 in Orlando, Florida , was cancelled in a statement.

Amid her relationship turmoil, she has since reportedly warned Ben’s ex to stay away from him . By Teresa Roca JENNIFER Lopez gushed love is “twenty years patient” when she wed Ben Affleck two decades after.