Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are reportedly on the verge of announcing their divorce — but that hasn't stopped J.Lo from showing concern for his children . Affleck, 51, has three children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner : Violet Anne, 18, Finn, 15 , and Samuel, 12.

These children have formed a close bond with J. Lo and her twins, Max and Emme, 16, whom she shares with ex-husband Marc Anthony. Ben Affleck's summer has 'not been the easiest' due to J.

Lo 'divorce' rumors Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck to join forces on new film despite impending 'divorce' Following her recent trip to the Hamptons, it is believed that spending time with Affleck's children is now a top priority for Lopez. A source revealed that she is trying to maximize her time with them before the summer vacation ends. The insider told People: "Just because she's not with Ben, doesn't mean that she doesn't care about his kids.

She always cared about them," The source also shared that Lopez "wants to spend quality time with them before school resumes" and before Violet heads off to college. The person added that the singer had been eager to make her marriage work, even spending "months looking for the perfect house for their blended family." Another insider expressed Lopez's concerns about how her divorce from Affleck might affect their children.

"There are five kids involved in this. She knew they were going to blend families," the source said. Speaking to Page Six, they added: "She has not fully accepted it is.