Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are reportedly gearing up to file divorce papers (the process has been slow...

!), and apparently J.Lo isn't thrilled with how everything's gone down. “She’s furious,” a source tells “He has humiliated her.

He was the one who initiated getting back together. He’s humiliated her because she made a big deal that he’s the love of her life. They just had two weddings two years ago.

This is some kind of a record, they’re not young kids.” Apparently, J.Lo's upset due to the impact this is having on her and Ben's children.

Per the insider, “There are five kids involved in this. She knew they were going to blend families. She has not fully accepted it is over.

” Oh, and another source notes that part of the reason Ben hasn't filed his divorce papers yet is to avoid embarrassing J.Lo further because "He’s very protective of her." That saaaaid, a different insider (I know, there are a of people spilling) told that the couple are "waiting to announce their official split, because they want to make sure everything is seamless when they do, especially with everyone involved.

Neither of them want this process to be rushed. They are treating the separation with as much grace, understanding, and gentleness as they can." Honestly, sounds all kinds of complicated.

But reminder that Jenny from the Block is back in Los Angeles after a summer spent in the Hamptons, so tbd on if she and Ben manage to make things work after reuniting!.