Get daily celeb exclusives and behind the scenes house tours direct to your inbox We have more newsletters Get daily celeb exclusives and behind the scenes house tours direct to your inbox We have more newsletters In Lalalaletmeexplain 's hit column, readers ask for her expert advice on their own love, sex and relationship problems. With over 200k Instagram followers, Lala is the anonymous voice helping womankind through every bump in the road. An established sex, dating and relationship educator, she’s had her fair share of relationship drama and shares her wisdom on social media to a loyal army of followers.

Every week thousands turn to her to answer their questions (no matter how embarrassing), and her funny, frank approach to love and relationships has made her the ultimate feel-good guru. For this week's column, simply continue reading..

. Dear Lala, My new f*** buddy is my neighbour in the same block of flats as me. He's been over four times now.

I'm really happy with the arrangement. I've also turned down him coming over three times. He messages and has never knocked out the blue or anything.

Last time he came over he asked if I wanted to put some money into an investment, getting a bigger return next month. I said absolutely not, I'm not interested. He tried to convince me for a minute but I shut it down.

I got the feeling he respected that but it's really taken me by surprise that he'd ask. I'm highly sceptical of any such scheme and now I'm paranoid that the whole .