I’m a 26-year-old heterosexual male looking for love. I live and work outdoors, in different professional capacities depending on the season. And I usually move every four to six months, depending on where the work takes me.
I had a girlfriend for a short time, but we weren’t invested enough to not say goodbye at the end of the season. I had another girlfriend for a season with whom I was invested, but she got a job in another country and I wasn’t willing to go that far for her. I read somewhere I should increase my pheromones by not washing more than once a week.
But with all my activity, I could barely stand the smell of myself after three days. What do you suggest I do to find love? Definitely wash! And wash your clothes and brush your teeth. It’s true that everyone has a scent, and we are attracted or repelled by other people’s scents.
I remember being friends with a guy once who decided he liked me. He got closer than he had ever been, I got a whiff of him and bolted. That was my inner person saying, “This guy isn’t the one.
” Keep your hair, body, clothing and breath smelling fresh and clean — and then just be yourself. You will find someone who enjoys your same lifestyle, or at least can understand it and live with it. You’re still young; be patient.
My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. I’m older than him by a few years, but not many. But I can see that at this point in our relationship, the difference feels like a chasm.
My interna.