When my neighbor moved in, we slowly became friends and realized we had a deep connection. Once we admitted to having feelings for each other, we needed to set boundaries to avoid rushing. We realized the boundaries weren't working, so we went all in on our relationship.

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You can opt-out at any time by visiting our Preferences page or by clicking "unsubscribe" at the bottom of the email. Advertisement Every couple has a prepared response to the question, "So, how'd you two meet?" Whenever I get asked this, I always give a short and sweet answer: "He moved in next door to me." The long answer is much more complicated and tumultuous.

Honestly, my boyfriend and I took a bold leap of faith, fully aware that we were either on the brink of something beautiful or setting ourselves up for a mess. This story is available exclusively to Business Insider subscribers. Become an Insider and start reading now.

Have an account? Log in . Advertisement But when a stranger moved into an apartment next door, it was the start of something special. I met my new neighbor and thought nothing of it When I returne.