Trends are cyclical, but “ ” is forever. From “eyebrow blindness”––the early 2000s and ‘10s trend of overdrawing and filling in your brows (think: 2003 Lil’ Kim)––to the return of “ ” with extra-pigmented cheeks in the 2020s, the most popular trends in history have all ran into a point of excess. While some lean into on purpose, others may find it how far is far by mistake.

Now, with “ ” trending on TikTok––a phenomena linking bad wigs to the attraction of rich, white men––how do you know when your needs a new life? “The lifespan of synthetic wigs generally ranges from six months to one year with proper care,” mentor and founder of tells ESSENCE. “The choice between synthetic and human hair wigs depends on personal preferences, budget, and lifestyle.” One TikTok user posted her struggle with “ ” with the caption “wig blindness is REAL because what was I thinking going out in public like this,” followed by photos of an unparted, unlaced wig floating on top of her head.

In the comments, users responded “we have all been a victim of wig blindness” and “U were just early to the Hard wig soft life movement.” While wig blindness isn’t all bad (rough hair may lead you to your ), you should also know when it’s time to give it up. “Considering we should treat our extensions with the same care as our natural hair, the signs will be there,” O says.

“Lace is a delicate material that requires gentle care. Over time, it .