A has sparked outrage after he refused to change the color scheme for his . shared to the popular “Am I The A**hole?” forum, the groom shared how he and his partner of five years have started discussing , after being engaged for about nine months. He acknowledged that his fiancée is doing “a great job” planning it out, confessing that he’s “just letting her choose what she wants,” as it’s her big day.

He then explained that they’ve been talking about color schemes for his “suit accessories and the bridesmaids’ dresses,” as he pointed out that his favorite color is Cadbury purple. Although he claimed that the bride-to-be initially agreed on that color scheme, she later changed her mind. “It then got to the point where she was suggesting different types of colors we could have, ‘lilac, peach, sage green, baby blue,’” he explained.

“I said ‘I already told you I want Cadbury purple.’ She said that I can’t have Cadbury purple because it doesn’t go with anything.” According to the groom, he told his partner that he was fine with her being in charge of everything about the wedding, and “the only input [he] wanted to add” was regarding what he’d be wearing at the event.

However, they still had an argument regarding the color scheme, during which the groom stood his ground about wanting Cadbury purple. “She started to get into a strop, saying that I’m making it difficult and asking if we can just compromise, and I said that it wo.