Fans of The Golden Bachelorette are left raging after one of Joan Vassos' final three suitors told the leading lady he 'wasn't ready' to be with her before removing himself from the competition. The shocking self elimination came as Joan was enjoying Fantasy Suites in Tahiti with her final three suitors, Guy Gansert , Chock Chapple and Pascal Ibgui . Pascal was the last to have his date with the bombshell, which came after he shared concerns about moving forward with host Jesse Palmer .
Golden Bachelorette fans rally behind Joan after Fantasy Suite sex decision Golden Bachelorette fans left in tears by Joan and Nancy ahead of Fantasy Suites Their date activities included a traditional Tahitian beach ceremony followed by a dinner cruise. It was clear early on in the date that Pascal was feeling uneasy as he grew anxious about opening up to Joan. As the two sat down for dinner, Pascal let Joan down as he told her he would be leaving the competition .
As dinner began, Pascal explained he 'wasn't ready' for an engagement, telling Joan: "I was very much in love with someone last year...
and then my daughter signed me up for The Golden Bachelorette ." "Today, I got scared," he shared with Joan. "I'm having a very difficult time.
..I just don't think I can get to the place where you want me to be .
" "I know what love is...
we've both experienced it...
but I'm just not in love," he said before Joan told him that she didn't want a broken heart, and that he should leave if he's 'never gonn.