World-renowned DJ Black Coffee has finally broken his silence on the much-publicised breakdown of his marriage to actress and fashion designer Enhle Mbali Mlotsha . The divorce, finalised in 2019, has been the subject of much speculation and rumour, with accusations of infidelity and financial disputes surfacing in the media. In recent interviews, Black Coffee has offered his perspective on the factors that contributed to the end of their relationship.
One of the key issues Black Coffee highlighted was a perceived mismatch in expectations regarding affection and commitment within the marriage. He explained, “For me, I think I modelled marriage my own way, alone, because of my upbringing, my parents failing in marriage, and me not being raised by both of them. I created my own world where I am like, You know, when I get a chance to do this thing, I’m going to do it this way, so much that you want to lead,” he said.
This statement reveals a personal approach to marriage shaped by his own childhood experiences and a desire for a specific dynamic within the relationship. Black Coffee’s comments suggest a feeling of unappreciated effort in demonstrating affection. His high expectations for the marriage, possibly stemming from his personal experiences, may not have been reciprocated, contributing to a growing disconnect between himself and Mbali.
The disparity between his expectations and the reality of the relationship appears to have played a significant role in the event.