DEAR JANE: A petty argument about bridesmaids dresses is DESTROYING my family Best-selling author Jane Green gives advice to a devastated mother of the bride Do you have a question for Jane? Email dearjane@mailonline.com or ask it below READ MORE: I'm so jealous of my mother I tried to ruin her marriage By Jane Green For Dailymail.Com Published: 06:36 EDT, 28 July 2024 | Updated: 06:40 EDT, 28 July 2024 e-mail View comments Dear Jane, I desperately need your advice.

My only child, my daughter, is getting married in October, and in January, all of the bridesmaids went to pick out their dresses together. Because they all have different body types, my daughter suggested they choose a style that they felt most comfortable in – as long as the dresses were sleeveless and made from the same black chiffon fabric. The two Maids of Honor were then going to wear the same sleeved design in a different color because my daughter wanted them to stand out and feel special.

Everyone picked a their dress and they all seemed really happy with them, including my daughter. But two months later one of the bridesmaids, who was pretty salty about not being chosen as Maid of Honor, decided she wanted to change her style. And without checking with the bride, she ordered a dress in the exact same style as the Maids of Honor.

Dear Jane, my daughter is getting married in October - but she's embroiled in a furious fight with her cousin over bridesmaids dresses and it's threatening to ruin the wedding Wh.