The past months have been really hard, trying to cope with work and doing most of the parenting, as well as dealing with the hurt and humiliation over his affair. Our community members are treated to special offers, promotions and adverts from us and our partners. You can check out at any time.
More info Dear Coleen, For most of my 10-year marriage , my husband made me feel worthless by constantly lying and being unfaithful. Last September, I’d finally had enough after discovering his latest affair and threw him out. He went to live with his sister and I stayed in our home with our two young children.
The past months have been really hard, trying to cope with work and doing most of the parenting, as well as dealing with the hurt and humiliation over his affair, which was with someone I knew quite well. That relationship didn’t last, which is no surprise, as he’s impossible to trust, but it caused a lot of pain. Recently, I met another man who I like a lot and think I have a shot with, so I’ve been pushing my ex to get on with a divorce but, guess what? He wants me back! I guess he’s finally realised the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
He constantly calls and wants to talk about moving forward, claiming he’s changed and is ready to fully commit, but I just can’t trust him. Despite everything he’s put me through, I do still care about him, though, and want him to be OK because he’s the father of my children. I’ve given him numerous opportunities to .