Dear Abby: How to pursue dating after he said he doesn’t want a relationship?

I really like this guy. (Getty Images) Getty Images Abigail Van Buren DEAR ABBY: I really like this guy. He makes me so happy.

He told me he is attracted to me, but he doesn’t want a relationship with me. When we spend time together, we always have a great time. When I reach out to him, he doesn’t always respond right away, but he treats me wonderfully when he does.

I really want us to date -- not have a “relationship,” just date. How can I tell him that? -- FALLING HARD FOR HIM DEAR FALLING HARD: This guy may have the same thing in mind as you do. There may be reasons you should be aware of as to why he doesn’t always respond to you in a timely fashion.

He may need to concentrate on school, his job or another girlfriend. It would be in your best interests to know why. Since you would be willing to date him under the circumstances you described, speak up, and see how he reacts.

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