Fitz and Trish say their relationship is never defined by their racial backgrounds. BINTULU (Sept 18): Cross-cultural marriages between people from different regions, like Sarawak and Peninsular Malaysia, or those from different ethnic backgrounds, can nurture greater understanding and stronger unity among Malaysians. Such unions allow families to learn more about and appreciate each other’s cultures, traditions and languages; thus, instilling in them a deeper sense of national unity and mutual respect.
‘Learn from each other’ For Fitzpatrick Ricky, 39, and wife Trish Wong, 38, they uphold mutual respect and willingness to learn from each other as the cornerstone of a successful interracial marriage. “I really appreciate how the Chinese culture places such a strong emphasis on good work ethics and close family bonds. “It’s not like the Bidayuh do not value these things, but the way the Chinese prioritise and approach them feels distinct.
“I find their dedication to hard work and their commitment to maintaining close family relationships admirable and inspiring,” said the Kuching-based civil servant, known simply as ‘Fitz’ to those around him. On the other hand, Trish really appreciates how connected her husband’s family is to the land, truly appreciating the earth and what it provides, especially when it comes to growing their own food. “It’s such a simple but meaningful way to live, and it reminds me how important it is to take care of the land, and.