CHARLOTTE Dawson is remaining dignified in the wake of her fiance Matt Sarsfield's "dirty texts" scandal - and "not rushing any decisions." Earlier this week, we exclusively reported how the MTV star's loved ones were "begging her to ditch" the rugby player after he was discovered to have been messaging another woman. 6 Charlotte Dawson is 'not rushing any decisions' in the wake of her fiance Matt Sarsfield's sexting scandal Credit: Getty - Contributor 6 The MTV star was left 'blindsided and humiliated' after Matt's 'dirty messages' to another woman were exposed Credit: Getty 6 Charlotte put on a brave face for her son Jude's birthday party after the rugby star was.

no show Credit: @gabriellephotographyar 6 A source has claimed Matt wants to 'go back to how things were' Credit: Splash Mum of two Charlotte, 31, was understandably left "blindsided and humiliated " as the scandal played out and faced more heartache as Matt then "failed to show up" up their son's first birthday party. Now the Ex On The Beach alumni is taking time out to make a considered decision on the family's future. A source has told OK! Magazine : "She is taking her time to process everything and is doing what is best for her two little boys.

"It’s obvious that Matt would like to go back to how things were, but Charlotte isn’t rushing any decisions." Last weekend, Charlotte vowed to "put her kids first" as she threw a lavish first birthday party for little boy Jude. She is also mum to their son Noah.

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