No matter how organised you are, planning a wedding can be stressful. One of the most difficult parts of planning a wedding is deciding who to invite , especially if you have a big family. This bride-to-be is “raging” after her father invited family members without her permission.
She took to Reddit to explain how it all unfolded and why she was now on the verge of not wanting to speak or see her father. The Reddit user explains that she lives in a different country than her father. So she thought it would be a good idea to ask him to hand deliver some of the wedding invitations to those close to him.
She made sure not to give him any extra invites. “A few weeks later, he messaged me asking for a PDF version of the invite because one of the relatives lives two hours away, and he wasn’t planning to hand-deliver it. “I asked, ‘Why don’t you just drop it off at the post office?’ He replied that he was chatting with this relative on WhatsApp and that it would be easier and quicker that way.
Naively, I complied,” she writes. This of course was a mistake on her part because he then went on to send the PDF version of the invite to every single relative, which included people she had never met before. When she questioned why he did that he explained that he felt torn about inviting some relatives and excluding others because it’s “not the right way to do things.
” “I explained to him that: 1. It’s not his wedding. 2.
He’s not paying for it, so he doesn’.