We recently asked former bridesmaids and groomsmen of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us the moment they realized their friend made the wrong choice and shouldn't have gotten married. Here are the shocking results: 1. "When the bride started dirty dancing and humping her male friend on the dance floor.

They disappeared for an hour and came back, and she continued dancing with him. The next day at the brunch, she was not present; the groom's mother let us know they already split up. The divorce was final the following month.

" "He is now married to a wonderful wife and has three beautiful children." — sweetturtle193 2. "I was sitting on the steps of the stage with her groom just chatting and waiting for practice to start, when another bridesmaid slowly came trickling in.

He whispered to me that he was very attracted to her and didn't know if he was making the right decision. I was so shocked and dumbfounded and wished I would've told my friend/the bride, but I didn't. I kept it secret.

" "They've now been separated for years." — sleepingminion78 3. "I have two: One where the groom gave a speech and didn't say a single word about his new wife.

It was just, 'Uh...

Thanks, everyone for coming.' Had another friend whose fiancé made a stink about having to dance at the ceremony. Their first dance lasted about 30 seconds before the DJ invited everyone else out onto the floor to 'end the groom's suffering.

'" — jennifern44d6a36a7 4. "I called their house, and he told me she would .