It’s no secret that and Ben Affleck prefer to live different lifestyles. While with all eyes on her, Ben prefers to remain private. Incompatibility was the driving factor for the downfall of their marriage.

“It was more and more apparent they weren’t a good match,” an insider divulged to While Ben and Jen went to therapy to try and “make it work” it still wasn't enough. “It boiled down to [the fact that] they are two different people,” the insider explained. The source divulged that the divorcing couple agreed to separate after realizing they were not in alignment.

“[Jennifer] came to the realization things weren’t going to change and they were incompatible,” the source confessed. “Spending time apart — it became obvious it wouldn’t work.” Jennifer had the internet in a frenzy after she filed for divorce without the presence of an attorney on August 20, which was her and Ben’s second wedding anniversary.

Listed as the date of separation in the document was April 26. For months Jennifer and Ben have been rumored to have marital woes so their divorce isn’t unexpected. At the end of the day, their inherent differences were the reason that their relationship began going downhill ahead of divorce.

“Jennifer loves luxury, mansions, jets, yachts, red carpets and all things glamorous. Ben has never liked those things,” an insider revealed to Us. “Unless he is promoting work, he doesn’t like the spotlight.

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