At 69, I'm seeing THREE devoted men at once - and no, I don't plan to get married to any of them, says DEBBIE ARNOLD

At 69, I'm seeing THREE devoted men at once - and no, I don't plan to get married to any of them, says DEBBIE ARNOLD By Debbie Arnold Published: 01:35, 25 July 2024 | Updated: 01:35, 25 July 2024 e-mail View comments Although it has taken me until the age of 69, I’ve finally found a man who makes me laugh, a man who takes me to wonderful restaurants and makes me feel like a lady, and a man who is fit, gorgeous and fantastic in bed. The most important thing is that these three men never meet. It’s a twist on an old gag, but in my case it’s entirely true.

After two marriages and another long-term relationship, none of which provided lasting happiness, like many women my age I now reject the idea of focusing all my love and attention on one man. I won’t swallow the lie that a partner to cook and care for is what every woman needs. In fact, there’s a sign in my kitchen that says: ‘The following four-letter words are banned in this house: cook, dust, wash, iron.

’ Instead of recoiling at the idea of living alone as I head into the next decade, I love it. Of course, I still adore men, but as friends with benefits rather than a husband. But please, do take your mind out of the gutter — of those three men I’m currently seeing, only one shares my bed.

Debbie Arnold, 69, is seeing three men at the same time in her 'HRT harem': Mr Old School, Mr Hilarious and, finally, Mr Sexy So how does it work? At the moment, there are three main players in my HRT harem, as I like to.