Look, can be stressful, especially when you’re doing it via text. When you don’t have any IRL social cues to go off of, you kinda have to tread carefully sometimes lest you risk coming on too strong, ya know? But because we are proponents of hitting send on that risky text (unless it’s ), allow us to clue you in on a secret little weapon that can help you strike the perfect balance between “hi, yes, I am interested in you” and “ .” Say hello to the flirty emoji.

A well-placed flirty emoji can do wonders for your game. It can turn up the heat on an otherwise innocent message, soften the impact of a potentially too , or generally leave your crush guessing (and asking the group chat) what exactly your means. And that, friends, is right where you want ’em.

Of course, knowing which emoji to use (and when) is key. While you’re likely familiar with the classic cast of flirty emojis, the wink really only goes so far these days. Fortunately, there is a wide range of other emojis out there that can and should claim their place in your flirtatious exchanges.

From to to, frankly, weird ones (our personal fave), we’ve put together this comprehensive list of 35 flirty emojis you have at your literal fingertips. But first! A little guide to using them right, according to experts. 5 Tips for Flirting With Emojis, According to Experts Not to sound like a poster on the wall of your elementary school classroom, but it remains sound advice, okay? “Authenticity is hot, and i.